If you want to learn how to talk dirty, the first thing that comes to mind is probably the clichés – the porno videos that make you blush, the dirty books that make you giggle, and the phone sex operators that whisper naughty words into an anonymous ear.
But that’s not all there is! Talking dirty can be brought into your own bed and can become an unbelievable experience for both you and your lover. It can improve your sex drive, open up new doors to pleasure, and make you both feel much more comfortable in your sensuality – and in your relationship.
If you’re just getting started with the learning to talk dirty game, this handy lesson will make things easier!
You won’t be relaxed with dirty talk until you’ve practiced it. You want the words to flow easily, and for one comment to open the gates to another, and another. The best way to do that is to get comfortable with the sound of those words coming out of your mouth.
Learn how to talk dirty to yourself! If you are the shy kind, look into the mirror while you say those bad things you’ve learned so far. If you’re more bold, get out your vibrator and masturbate while you talk dirty to yourself. Which things make you blush? Which ones turn you on? How creative can you get?
When you first start talking dirty, the words might sound unnatural or stilted. Don’t worry about that. As with anything else, practice makes just what the doctor ordered! Keep working at saying those things – especially if they are the things that make you blush! – until you can purr those naughty words like the most experienced sex kitten.