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Tips and Tricks from a Phone Sex Operator!

You love phone sex, don’t you? There’s something so thrilling about getting your man off with only your voice and imagination. It’s a feeling of power like no other, and it can be addictive – there’s a reason couples who engage in phone sex want to do it all the time!

To rev up your phone sex skills, take a few pointers from the professionals. Did you ever consider the following tricks?

Tell the story. Phone sex isn’t just about getting off. It’s about fulfilling fantasies and touching someone on an emotional and mental level. It’s about telling a story and painting pictures in your lover’s mind. Start out your phone sex session with a particular fantasy in mind, and walk your lover through it, describing every detail. If you get turned on while you are talking, all the better!

Sound matters! Phone sex experts know that it isn’t just the story – it’s the sounds that go with it. Your deep, sultry “sex” voice is an instant turn-on. They like to hear the things you are doing in the background – the sound of the dildo sliding in and out, the buzz of the vibrator, the sound of the bathwater you are lying in.

But what if you simply can’t get in the bathtub? Or what if you don’t want to use a vibrator? This might be the only time during your sexual forays that it is okay to fake it. Turn on your vibrator and let him hear it, but don’t use it. Or if you don’t want to pull out the vibrator, an electric toothbrush sounds exactly the same. Lean over the sink and swish water with your hand. If he’s into spanking and wants to hear you doing it to yourself, keep in mind that the back of a hairbrush on a piece of soft leather – like a nice jacket – will sound the same as if you were spanking your own skin.

Cool, huh?

Prolong the Event. If you want to really blow your man’s mind, a long session of phone sex will do it. But be prepared for what hours of phone sex will entail. Make sure your phone is charged up (you will need a cordless or a cell phone to move around the house). Make certain you have plenty of quiet time with no interruptions. Keep a glass of water handy and take frequent sips to keep your mouth moist.

When it comes to orgasms, let’s face it – even the most multi-orgasmic woman can get sore and tired after a marathon session. If you’re really turned on and feel like you can come over and over, have at it – but remember to pace yourself. You don’t want to run out of juice just when your man needs you to talk him through an orgasm of his own.

Don’t be afraid to laugh! Sex can be downright funny, and phone sex can be a barrel of laughs, too. Don’t be afraid to laugh if you say something silly, and don’t be afraid to throw out the kinky stuff to test how much he likes it. The bottom line about phone sex is having fun!

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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