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How To Spice Things Up During Phone Sex

spice-things-upSo you and your partner are talking dirty in the bedroom , and it’s become something you both expect. You can pull out your bag of tricks and make it different each time, but why not go a little out of the normal realm of naughtiness, and use some modern technology to turn your sexy on?

Go back to the original dirty talk , baby — have some phone sex!

It might seem silly to have phone sex with someone you are sleeping with all the time, or even someone who lives with you. Why bother calling him up at the office and getting off with a mutual masturbation session, if he’s going to be coming home in a few hours anyway? What is the point in that?

The point is exactly that — it’s unexpected. The thought of having phone sex seems frivolous or counterproductive. You are into a routine, and it’s a good one! Your sex is hotter than ever. Why bother with spicing things up if the dirty talk has done the trick already?

The element of surprise is always sexy, no matter how long you’ve been together, and no matter how well your sex life works. Surprising your partner with a naughty phone call in the middle of the day will make his eyebrows rise — along with something a bit farther south. Give him what he’s not expecting!

Make sure you call during a time when you know he can be alone. Does the door to his office lock? Is he away on a business trip? Choose a time when you know you can use those sultry words to your advantage.

Get revved up before you call. Grab your favorite vibrator or your naughtiest erotic novel, and spend some time with yourself before you dial that number. Get yourself all hot and bothered, but don’t go all the way to satisfaction — save that for your lover, and let him hear you climax over the phone line.

Push all his hot buttons. Phone sex is all about the images you paint in your lover’s head, so make sure you go after all those things that turn him on the most. Describe his favorite fantasy, help him picture his favorite position, and remind him of all the little things you do that drive him absolutely wild. When you’re talking on the phone, you don’t have the advantage of visuals, so use words that make it clear. Don’t be afraid to get raunchy! The crude words you might not use face-to-face are perfect when you’re having phone sex. The hotter you can get, the better!

When it’s over, don’t play coy about it. The next time you see your lover, throw your arms around him and whisper in his ear, “I loved hearing you come today.” Then take the passion of that phone call and carry it into the bedroom, where you can do all those things you described — only now, you’re doing them in person!

The next time things seem to slow down or get a little stale, try a healthy dose of phone sex. You never know where it might lead.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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