If you are in a relationship and want to spice things up a bit there are several small things you can do over the course of a day or even a whole week that will have him lusting for you. Over time relationships can slide into a comfortable but in fact quite boring rut. If you let things continue in that manner you are sentencing yourself to a mundane sex life, and no one should have to live with that.
1.) Put on some sexy underwear. Even if you are going to a boring job all day and no one will see it, you will not only feel sexier, you’ll act sexier when you have a secret underneath your stuffy work attire. Heck, if you feel really risqué snap a pic with your phone and send it to him with a steamy message. You don’t even have to show anything that you may be embarrassed about later, but a quick nap of your bra strap so he can see some color and lace will rev his engine.
2.) Greet your man. Those housewives in the 50’s didn’t have it all wrong. When you meet your man at the door in nothing but your sexy undies, pumps and a frilly apron give him a big kiss and promise him an excellent evening then lead him to a hot meal he’ll think he’s died and gone to heaven. For weeks afterward he will have fond thoughts of frilly aprons and you whispering dirty words in his ear.
3.) Massage away his day. If your man works hard, make sure that once in a while he gets a nice relaxing treat. Lay him down and give him a full body massage. Don’t get so into the sexual part that you neglect his tired and tense muscles. A relaxed man is going to be much more of what you’re looking for after the massage is over. Just the feeling of your hands soothing his aches and lulling him into a state of being barely conscious also leads to him becoming aroused and more than capable of rocking your world.
There is a lot more to having a great sex life than going through the motions. When you and your partner feel that things are becoming routine or even rushed due to work, being tired, being stressed or having children around it is important that you both put forth some effort to bring back the excitement in the bedroom.