Have you lost that loving feeling? Don’t worry – you’re not alone. Too many couples these days don’t have the time or the inclination to get the sexual motors revving. You might be too busy, too tired, too overworked – and your relationship suffers for it.
Keeping the romance alive is one of the most important parts of a long-term relationship. To keep those fires burning, sometimes you must make the time for romance. Why not tonight?
Spark some romance by trying out a few of these tips tonight and get back into the sexual groove!
Light a candle. The soothing scent of a candle is heavenly, and the candle flame casts a beautiful amber glow on everything around it. Everyone appears more beautiful in the golden light, and your partner will appreciate the fact that the small light in the room draws you closer without conscious thought. Candles mean warm, good things – and they are an invitation to cuddle.
Make a date. Actually go out on a date with your partner. When life gets too busy, moments that would have been spent in a nice restaurant or doing something fun tend to be replaced with sitting on the couch at home while watching television and turning in early – without any sex to show for it. Plan a date, hire a sitter, call in sick to work, do whatever you need to do to make that date happen! Keep your mind open to the possibilities and try to recapture that feeling you had when you first met.
Play a naughty board game. Specialty stores carry board games or card games that are meant to spark the romance in your life – so invest in one and invite your partner to play. You might find everything from the most romantic suggestions to the most hard-core ones. Either way, the intimacy is the point – and playing the game with your partner is sure to lead to some of that!
Hit the strip club. Doesn’t sound romantic? Wait until you try it! Men love the thought of a woman who will take them to a strip club and maybe even have a few lap dances herself. Treating your partner in this way will surprise him or even shock him – and you will have fun simply watching his reaction. When you think he’s had enough, rush home and take advantage of the fact that he’s totally blown away by this new side of you.
Give him a massage. Plan on a quiet evening at home – but this time, there will be no television, phones, radios, or any other distractions. Invest in soft, fluffy towels and some high-quality massage oil. Give him a massage that he will never forget, starting with his back and going from his head to his feet. By the time you have oiled up every inch of his body, he’s going to be raring for something more than a massage!
The point of all these romantic gestures is to share time together. The more intimacy you have in your relationship, the more open you will be, and the more fun you will have together. Try out one of our romantic tips – you’ll be glad you did!