Having Sex With An Ex: Is It Ever A Good Idea?

Sex with an ex? Who in their right mind would do that, right? After all, that person is an ex for a very good reason. But then again, remember how hot the sex was? Perhaps sex with an ex isn't such a bad idea after all... The sex with an ex question comes up time and time again, and everyone seems to have a different answer to the age-old question. Should you do it with … [Read more...]

Three Ways To Pamper Your Partner

We all love to be indulged. And when someone else takes the initiative to show us they care by indulging us, that’s a sure fire recipe for relationship success; especially when multi-sensory stimulation is employed. There have been uncountable articles written about sexual indulgences, but what is equally important to a successful relationship is pampering with no … [Read more...]

Keeping it Strong Across the Miles

You know that old saying about how distance makes the heart grow fonder? Well, it's true - if you know how to keep the distance hot and spicy! Revving up a relationship over the miles can be tough. Sometimes it seems as though geography, times zones, and a million other necessary annoyances are conspiring against you and your beloved. It might seem difficult to keep the … [Read more...]

Pssst…Want to Know the Secret of Happy Couples?

You know them when you see them. They are the couple that has been together for so long, they can read each other's thoughts. They might not say a word at the breakfast table, but their looks at each other over the morning paper speaks volumes. They are the ones who touch without realizing they You know them when you see them. But do you know their secret? Do you know how … [Read more...]

5 Tips To Flirting With Your Body

Yes of course dirty talk has its time and its place, but did you know that there is an even more powerful tool to connect with your mate, and you don’t even have to breathe a word! Body language is a long cherished art form, and has been studied for centuries. Humans have this unique ability to communicate to each other through non verbal cues, and with these cues, humans … [Read more...]

How Love Notes Keep the Fire Raging!

Maybe you know what to say to your partner when you're both in bed in the heat of the moment. But what about those times when you're apart? Talking on the phone might not be possible, and email might be impossible too, depending on the work situation and who might be privy to the words you type. But there is a surefire way to keep your lover hot and ready for you - and … [Read more...]

Gossip Hurts, Rumors Suck! How Dirty Talk Can Go Bad

Once upon a time, I was in a relationship with someone who didn't know how to keep his mouth shut. If he wasn't blabbing about the latest crazy thing his buddies did, he was spreading rumors about what they should have done. He became a gossip maven, the one who knew everything about everybody and knew which rumors were true. The gossip mill started and ended with him. So … [Read more...]

Attention, Men! Do You Know What Your Lover Wants?

Does your woman want you to talk dirty to her -- but you don't have a clue where to begin? Many people believe that men have all the answers when it comes to sex, but let's be honest. Sometimes, even the most seasoned lover is just as clueless as the rest of us! The best way to learn how to talk dirty to your partner is very simple, but that doesn’t mean it's easy. It's … [Read more...]

A Dirty Talk Psychology Lesson

Even after all of your best efforts, talking dirty might not come easily. You might have read every one of these blog posts (and if you haven't, well, you should!). You tried out the fantastic Ultimate Guide to Talking Dirty. You gave all the tips and tricks a good try. But you're standing in front of your partner, ready to hop into bed, and you want to tell him exactly … [Read more...]

101 Signs That It’s Over

1. Your lover is sleeping with someone else. 2. She just burned all your clothes on the lawn. 3. Your sheets smell of someone else's perfume. 4. Someone keyed the words "It's over" into your car. 5. You got the "dear john" letter. 6. She went to her mother's and never came back. 7. You are sleeping on a friend's couch. 8. Your lover no longer wants to … [Read more...]

Those Naughty Words…on Paper?

That's right! When you want to talk dirty but you don't quite know how, why not start out with something a little less likely to make you blush? Begin by picking up a book of dirty stories, or finding a few on the internet to read. Which ones make you tingle? Which ones would turn your lover on? Read stories to get yourself in the mood, and then write one of your own. … [Read more...]