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Phone Sex To Physical Sex: From Fantasy To Reality

When you’re having phone sex, the delights are wide-ranging. One of the best parts of good phone sex is the fact that you can be anyone you want to be, and you can do anything you want to do. It’s all in the realm of fantasy, and the sky is the limit! Over the phone you can be the ultimate vixen, always ready to have a good romp, and capable of doing things you might not be able to do in “real life.”

With so many relationships today starting on the internet and moving to phone before the two people involved ever meet face-to-face, phone sex can be hot as a firecracker – but then the meeting can be a disappointment. How can you keep things realistic and avoid the letdown of reality versus fantasy?

Keep in mind that the fantasies you talk about over the phone are just that – fantasies. While you might be interested in fulfilling some of them – and more power to you, my friend! – recognize that you might not be able to make all of those fantasies come true.

Here’s an example: Let’s say you and your phone sex partner are both very much into the thought of anal sex. The very mention of it turns you on beyond belief. You’ve masturbated to the thought more than a few times, and your phone sex always reaches the hottest peak when anal sex is brought into the mix.

But when it’s time to really do the deed, things are not that simple. You need lube – lots of it – and patience. The heart-pounding, quick satisfaction that comes from thinking about the act is not quite the same as the real deal. Though it can still be very enjoyable (oh, God, can it ever!), actually having it is not the same as acting it out via phone sex.

Avoid the letdown by staying firmly entrenched in reality. Before you meet your phone sex partner and make good on all those teasing nights, set some ground rules. Talk about what would really happen in a particular scenario. What if you can’t make it work? What if your bodies simply don’t fit or bend that way? What would you do as an alternative? Approach it with an air of reality and agree that while you will try to work out your fantasies, it might not be possible…and agree that it’s okay if those things don’t happen in the end.

Another important element of meeting your phone sex lover is having a safe word. With phone sex, you can stop at anytime. You’re the one doing the touching, and therefore, you’re the one truly controlling the action. In the flesh, however, things are very different! Have a safe word so either one of you can stop at any time, without worry.

Are you ready to meet your phone sex partner? Make sure you both understand the ground rules and you’re ready to fulfill your fantasies to a reasonable, sane point. Set that safe word…and then devour each other!

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

2 comments

  1. Can I have an example of how to start off with phone sex, it seems awkword to even start off first. Can i get at least couple examples.

  2. I completely agree. After just coming off a hot and heavy phone sex relationship this post hit the spot.

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