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Phone Sex: Less Planning Than You May Expect

phone sex tonightPhone sex may sound like a joke to some couples, but for many, it’s the only way for them to get in some hot naughty time together. With Internet dating increasing in popularity, couples are often falling in love and getting together even though they live in entirely different times zones, or even continents. If this is the case for you, or even if you’re just unable to see your lover one night, phone sex is a great way to “get off” without even “getting it on.”

If you and your partner are completely comfortable talking about anything with each other, just straight up mention phone sex to find out their thoughts. If you bring it up and seem interested in it, chances are they will consider it as well since they now know it’s something you’ve considered. If you feel silly mentioning it, wait until you’re on the phone together, make sure you’re both alone, and say something like “I really miss you right now and wish you were here to cuddle and touch me.” It’s enough to get their mind in the same place as yours without actually saying “hey, wanna have some phone sex?”

If you’re both into the idea, a great (but often difficult) way to easily get more into it is to touch yourself. If you’re both getting more and more aroused through masturbation, you’ll feel less inhibited and more likely to say what’s on your mind. Let your partner know what you’re up to and ask if they’re doing the same. Let out a soft moan and tell them how good and wet (or hard) you are.

If you’re both masturbating while on the phone together, there might not even be a whole lot of talking going on. Listening to each other get aroused is sometimes more than enough. If you’re getting close to orgasm, let him know! Tell him you’re going to cum and that you want him to cum with you. Getting off together while on the phone is incredibly hot and probably easier than you think, since the fact that you’re both doing it while on the phone is enough of a turn-on by itself.

Phone sex doesn’t require a whole lot of planning or detail if you’re both aroused, touching yourself and have your mind in the right place. Next time you’re on the phone with your lover, bring it up! Don’t be afraid to stick your hand in your pants, just go for it and trust that they will play along.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

3 comments

  1. Hey Denise 🙂 me and my boyfriend are long distant for a couple weeks and recently we’ve really gotten into phone sex. We both really enjoy it but I still have problems talking dirty- I just never know what to say! Any tips?

    Thanks a bunch
    Melissa

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