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Not Enough Sex? Turn Your Mojo On!

Are you getting enough sex? If you’re like the majority of the population, there will be times in your life when the sex dries up. Though going through a dry spell can wreck havoc on your sex life and your self-esteem, getting through that phase will be easier if you choose to do things that make you feel sexier than ever.

If you’re not having enough sex, remedy that by revving up your mojo!

What makes you feel sexy? It’s all about making you feel like the hottest chick to ever walk the planet. Try out a few of these tips to bring the magic back:

Dress like a vamp. Few things make a woman feel sexier than a slinky new dress or the sensual feel of silk against her skin. It’s time to buy that gorgeous nightgown you’ve been lusting over at Victoria’s Secret. It’s time to wear shorter skirts, low-cut tops, and high heels. It’s time to rev up your sex appeal by reminding yourself – and your man! – that you can look hotter than hot.

The scent of a woman. Perfume works wonders not only for your man, but for you, too. Our strongest memories are associated with scents. If a certain smell turns you on, it’s a sure bet that you associate it with something sexy. Choose a warm yet vibrant scent that reflects how you want to feel at the moment, and christen it your new sexy smell. Spritz on the perfume when you’re in the mood to get amorous, and soon your man will associate that scent with gettin’ it on!

Flirt like mad. Flirt like crazy. It doesn’t have to be flirting with your man – why not flirt with the guy at the grocery store, or the man who mows the lawn next door, or the mail carrier? Your flirtatious side doesn’t have to be directed toward men, either. Why not flirt with that pretty woman behind the counter? The more you flirt, the sexier you get.

Invest in a Battery-Operated Boyfriend. Tired of not getting the fucking you deserve? Get it every day with your B.O.B. A good vibrator will do wonders for your attitude, and those regular orgasms will put a bounce in your step. No, it’s not the same as the real thing – but with a good fantasy in mind, it can come pretty close!

Learn something new about yourself. Give yourself something to look forward to, and make sure it’s a sexy outing. Take a strip-dancing class, learn how to belly dance, or simply take a yoga class every day to increase your flexibility and strength. Do something that makes you feel sexy, and soon your man will notice that you’re changing – and who knows? His desire for you might be rediscovered!

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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  1. Okay so I have a ton of questions about sex ( in general)! So I guess you could label me the reluctant virgin… I’m 18 and I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for almost a year! I’m just not sure how to plunge into a sex life or if I’m even ready to begin one. Im at a loss honestly ive never done anything remotely sexy, im not even sure if i could do it right! I guess im mainly worried about having an over all pleasing expirence! You know theres only ever going to be one first time, i dont want to end up regretting my first! Please help!

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