So…just how brave are you?
There are plenty of sexy scenarios that can liven up a relationship until it’s smoking hot. But most of those are done in private, between just the two of you, and probably behind the closed doors of the bedroom. There’s nothing wrong with that – in fact, we’ve often talked about how secrets between lovers can make relationships stronger.
But what if you are in the mood for a bit more spice? The kind of spice that can’t be had in your own bed? That’s where your adventurous spirit kicks in!
Here are a few scenarios that take a walk on the wild side. Are you brave enough to give one of them a shot?
Dressing Room. Ah, yes. The dressing room in that nice department store where you are probably close to naked while you are trying on clothes. It’s private, quiet, and roomy. What better opportunity for a little semi-public sex? The key is to make sure nobody is looking, keep your voices down, and don’t take much time.
Balcony. Book a room with a balcony and do the nasty while you’re standing on it. Or lying down on it. Or leaning over it, if you’re braver than most. The higher up on the hotel, the better your chances of privacy – but in the city, you can be seen from those who are in neighboring buildings. So the question becomes: How much of an exhibitionist are you?
Beach. Making love at the beach is something most people claim they would love to do – or have already done. Having sex in the water, right in the middle of the crowd, is meant for those with nerves of steel. After all, you have to hide the fact that you’re having an orgasm right in the middle of everybody’s frolicking fun. Not an easy thing to do!
Backyard – or Front Porch Swing. Want to stick close to home? Get it on in your backyard – or on your front porch swing. If your neighbors come by, you can take one of two approaches. You can be nice and talk and smile and pretend you aren’t hot as hell under that blanket, or you can give them a grin and tell them that if they don’t want to join in, they should probably mosey along. It depends on whether you want to be known as the town horndogs, I suppose.
Lover’s Lane. Remember the thrill of parking in high school? The sweat, the heat, the steamed up windows, the question of no or yes? You can recapture that with your honey, no matter how many years it’s been since you cruised lovers lane. Park that car, jump in the backseat, and be alert for the light of a police officer’s vehicle. This time you have a better excuse – “This was the only way we could get away from our kids!” (This works like a charm…don’t ask me how I know!)
Airplane Bathroom. Yes, it’s a cliche. But it’s still so much fun! If you are the flexible type, give it a shot. If you stay quiet and don’t take very long, the flight attendants will usually look the other way, and you will have quite the story to share with your friends later.
Hotel Elevator. Another cliche, but again, it works. Hit the stop button if you’re really worried about getting caught. Fooling around between floors can be a great work-up to the main event once you get to your room. But for the truly adventurous, only an elevator with glass walls will do.