When you are in the mood to talk dirty to your partner, these tips will come in quite handy. Which ones will help you make the most of your naughty experience?
– Make your dirty talk authentic to the situation. If you’re a young lady in a French Maid’s outfit, make that clear with your submissive, quiet vocalizations. If you’re a dominatrix in the mood to make your man do your bidding, your dirty talk will take on a darker, harsher tone. Whatever the situation, your dirty talk will reflect who you are.
– Keep growing that vocabulary! Do the old words you are used to using now sound stale and forced? Are you worried that you keep saying the same things over and over? Even when they are used in different situations, the same old words can become…well, the same old words. Spice it up! Read a dirty book for ideas. Surf the internet and find new ways to use old words. Use variations on body parts, sexual acts, and fetishes to create a dirty talk atmosphere that will wow your lover.
– Experiment with your sounds. Do you sound better if you moan a word, or is it better said quickly, to keep up a frantic pace during sex? What words are more like a caress when they are whispered? What words are meant to shock and get your partner revved up a bit more? Practice doing all sorts of things with those words. Using the same phrase, start by whispering it, then get increasingly loud and firm with it. Do this on your own, and then surprise your partner with the subtle nuances of your sexy talk.
– Engage your partner in your dirty talk. Ask questions and demand answers. Ask your partner to get more explicit. Perhaps playing the game of withholding something until he ponies up is worth a try — if he wants to touch you there , he’s going to have to name exactly what it is he wants to fondle! Or if he wants you to do something sexy to him, he’s got to ask for it in the sexiest way possible. It’s no fun if the naughty conversation is only one way — unless, of course, the other person is gagged and can’t speak, but that’s another blog post altogether!
– Finally, make sure your partner knows anything he says is welcome. In the heat of passion, there is no telling what will come out someone’s mouth, so you need to be ready for anything. Don’t laugh at your lover, and don’t be shocked if he comes up with things that blow your mind. Embrace the fact that he trusts you enough to tell you these wild fantasies!
With an open mind and a little practice, you can have a dirty talk experience that will leave you breathless and wanting more. Try it out on your lover and see what happens!