Men (and women!) love to get an out-of-the-blue dirty text from their significant other, just so they know they’re thinking about them in a dirty way. While it might not be the most appropriate text to open up while you’re in the middle of a work meeting, it’s generally harmless to send your man a provocative text so he has something to look forward to when he’s out of work. If you love the thought of doing this but don’t know exactly what to say or how to say it, here’s a few tips that should get your creative juices flowing:
1. Be as explicit as possible. It’s all in the details, and sending something like “I luv when u cum up behind me & massage my breasts” will get him much more bothered than “can’t wait 2 c u 2nite.” If your partner does something you really, really love and can’t get enough of, run with that at first and the ideas will flow from there.
2. Turn ordinary activities into fun, sexual activities. If you’re out shopping with friends (or alone,) send a picture from the dressing room. It doesn’t have to be a bare naked picture (most of us don’t get butt naked in the dressing room anyway), just snap a shot of your cleavage or panty line and a message with it such as “sneak peak 4 u later!” or “guess where I want u 2 touch me?” Humans are very visual creatures, and being able to see what’s coming to them can drastically spice up the fun.
3. Don’t hold back. Your partner isn’t going to judge you for the dirty things you say. You’re not going to be seen as a slut if you express how you feel, and if that is how you’re seen, it’s probably not someone you want to be with anyway!
Having an open sexting relationship with your partner is an excellent way to open the floodgates to entirely new ways to enhance your sex life. The more you play, the closer you will become and the more adventurous and healthy your sex life will be.