A lot of your success as a lover comes from being able to observe and respond to your partner’s emotional and physical desires. And while each new lover is a new adventure in discovering those desires, a better understanding of male anatomy can take you a long way to becoming a real sexpert.
The books we learned from in school only covered the basic functions of male genitalia: urination and ejaculation. While the basics are good to know, they really don’t prepare you for your first encounter with the real thing.
So, today we are going to take a closer look at three key places in the male genitalia and discover some of the more sensitive areas that, when properly stimulated, can lead to some mind-blowing sex!
We’ll start at the top. The head of the penis (the part your lover may refer to as the “soldier’s helmet”) is called the glans. This is the most sensitive part of your lover’s penis, so handle with care. Some guys find that too much stimulation of that one area may hurry things along too quickly. Sometimes, too much stimulation can even be painful! Make sure you take cues from your lover to know what amount of touch is right.
Another spot near the head that I’ve had great success with over the years is located on the under-side of the penis, where the glans meets the shaft. Stimulating the area where those two meet has never failed to elicit groans of pleasure from my partners. When performing oral on your lover, make sure to revisit this area often with your tongue, and see what sort of reaction you get!
The second obvious but often overlooked area of sensitivity hangs right below the shaft of the penis: yes, the testicles. A lot of women are apprehensive about fondling their lover’s testicles for fear of doing damage to such a sensitive area. Well, as long as you don’t turn into a human vice-grip, your caresses will bring far more pleasure than pain! Using your hands – or your mouth – to stimulate this area while also stimulating his glans can send shivers of pure ecstasy through your lover. And if he’s willing to experiment a bit, see if he’ll shave down for you, so you can really go to town without worrying about coughing up a hair later on.
The final spot we’ll be exploring is the perineum. This is the area between his testicles and his anus. Stroking this area with one or two fingers, or even simply applying some gentle pressure, can push your lover right over the edge. I use this spot when giving oral to help move things along if my jaw is starting to go numb. Hey, it’s not cheating if it results in mind-numbing pleasure!
Making good use of these three erogenous zones will make you a more skilled lover, and hopefully urge him to step up his game, too!