Have you ever heard, “When a man talks dirty to a woman, its sexual harassment; When a woman talks dirty to a man, it’s $3.95 a minute.” Well phone sex doesn’t have to only be done by professional women who get paid to sound sultry and talk naughty. Learn to have phone sex, and spice up a relationship when you two can’t be together.
Phone sex isn’t something that has to be tricky either. Be in your bedroom or somewhere where you feel comfortable. I would also put your significant other on speaker phone so your hands are free to play with yourself. This definitely enhances phone sex and is a must to make it fun and feel real. In addition, I always recommend having any vibrators, dildos or similar toys handy so you can be in the moment.
My favorite way to start off the conversation is to ask “what are you wearing?” Even if you are sitting in sweat pants or boxers… use your imagination. Since you are on the phone, you don’t have to be in your best lingerie or naked, but talk like you are. Other ways to start off the conversation are to say things such as “I love it when you touch me” or “I wish you were here to be rubbing my cock right now.” Adding a little quip about your sexual fantasies or desires lets your partner know that you want to get down and dirty!
One tip to having good, quality phone sex is to provide yourself with as many types of stimulation as possible. I’m not just talking about masturbating 12 different ways. I am talking about providing yourself with audio, visual and physical stimulation to make it feel like the person is with you.
For example, my boyfriend enjoys putting on porn for a little visual stimulation. Don’t be jealous, it’s just another way to get the right kind of ideas and thoughts running through your mind. As you two talk, touch yourself, play with your toys and get yourself as wet or as hard as you would if the person was next to you. As far as the audio stimulation goes, moaning and letting the other person hear the noises you are making is important to enhancing the overall experience for you both.
I think you and your significant other will find this to be another way to enjoy each other and keep things interesting, without having to pay $3.95 a minute!