Phone sex hasn’t always had a good reputation. Most of us think of dirty 900 operators and lonely nights spent talking to a questionable woman, but the truth is, phone sex can be great for your relationship, even if you’re living close to one another.
Even if you’ve been with your partner for a long time, it can be difficult to spice things up the second one of you walks in the door. With phone sex, you can play out an entire scenario and get each other off, even if you’re not in the same room. Many couples come to realize phone sex gives them the feeling of more “freedom” and the willingness to vocalize more about what they want, what they’re feeling or how their partner makes them feel. You may start talking about your day, only to let your husband or boyfriend know you were a “very bad girl at work, and need to be examined and punished.” “Well what do you need examined, baby?” “All of me.”
Where do you go from there? Who knows. Maybe he’ll take the lead, or maybe you can continue on, letting him know what he should do to you. “I want you to slowly lay me down and give me what I deserve… with your tongue.” His mind will be racing and it will be the perfect time to hand it over to him, asking what he wants to do to you.
Whether you keep it as a few teases, similar to sexting, or you take it all the way with full-on masturbation while on the phone together, the truth is that phone sex is hot. You can still be alone together while experiencing your partner and their intense satisfaction… all achieved by the words you’ve seduced them with. Phone sex is not for the faint of heart, so don’t underestimate what could happen once the two of you are getting it on.