Imagine this: Your lover comes home ready to hop into bed for an evening of fun. Somewhere along the journey, he comes up with a crazy, wild fantasy – one you’ve never heard from him before! It turns you on, it turns him on, and all seems to be well with the world.
But when it’s all over, you get that nagging question in the back of your mind: Was it really a fantasy? Was it something he wants to try? Or even worse, is it something he’s already tried, and now he wants to try it with me? What a terrible feeling of being second (or third…or fourth) fiddle!
Before you jump to conclusions and look at your partner with suspicion, hold your horses! Consider the following:
It can sometimes be easy to take something said in the heat of passion and apply it to what you “think” you see. If you have questions about whether your partner is cheating on you, it takes a little more proof than just a fantasy or two. Consider how he acts outside of the bedroom.
Below is a list of the signs of a cheating partner…does your man fit the bill?
- Brings home trinkets and gifts for no reason – all the time.
- He takes trips out of town without you.
- If you stop by the office unexpectedly, he gets upset or flustered.
- Your lovemaking has gone downhill.
- On the other hand, it might be hotter than ever – and he might have many new positions and ideas for you to try.
- You call his cell and he doesn’t answer…and when he calls you back, he acts evasive about where he was and who he was with.
- You find unusual charges on the credit card bill.
- Mysterious amounts of money are being withdrawn from the ATM.
- Overtime at work suddenly ramps up.
- His friends begin avoiding you.
- Someone calls your home and hangs up when you answer.
- He comes home smelling like soap or shampoo – but not the kind he uses at home.
- He uses the internet more often, or has an email account you never knew existed.
Keep in mind that everyone might be guilty of one or two of the things listed above…after all, bringing trinkets home all the time might simply be your man’s unique brand of affection! But if many items on that list are present, you might have something to worry about.
If you have read over the list here and none of them describe your man, relax…there’s nothing to worry about. Just enjoy the new fantasies he has opened up with and give them your all!
In fact, why not share a few of your naughty fantasies with him, too? You’re sure to have a good time in bed!