Talking dirty to your partner isn’t just about saying naughty things in the bedroom. It’s also about keeping that fire going when you are doing everyday things! Dirty talk can become everyday fun if you incorporate those naughty thoughts into the things you do on a regular basis.
Does your lover like to hear your compliments? Write them down! Get a stack of post-it notes and write dirty compliments on them, and the place them in places where they will be found from time to time, like a sweet surprise. Put them in the coat pocket, the glove compartment, the briefcase, and more.
Don’t have the time or inclination for notes? Send texts instead! Something as simple as asking what they are wearing lets them know you are thinking naughty thoughts. If you know their cell phone is secure, you could even send them the occasional sexy picture or go even further with the naughty texting.
Emails are quite common these days, so send a good one! An email filled with fantasy fodder will be a great incentive to get into a seriously hot exchange, and who knows? The email discussion might turn into a phone sex discussion, and that might make your in-person sex hotter. It’s worked for long-distance couples for years, so why can’t it work for you?
Don’t discount the thrill of turning everyday conversation into something naughty. When you’re in the elevator, tell your partner how hot it would be to hit the “stop” button and get a piece, right there. When you’re at lunch, tell your partner how you would love to drink that glass of soda from certain body parts. In the kitchen making dinner? There are so many naughty things you could say about utensils, food, and the possibility of getting it on while sitting on the counter!
No matter what you are doing, try to find a way to fit a naughty thought or comment into it. The more you do this, the more you will think about sex, and the better your bedroom games will get. Dirty talk with your partner is one of the hottest everyday things you could do!