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Goodbyes Are Hard: Ending The Phone Sex Relationship

It happens to everyone at some point. You have to say goodbye. Saying goodbye to someone who has done you wrong and stomped all over your heart is one thing…that’s usually for the better. Saying goodbye to someone and parting on friendly terms might even feel like a good end.

But sometimes, you have to say goodbye because you have chosen to go into a different direction…and that special someone can’t go with you.

It’s a situation that has become increasingly frequent as online dating has taken a foothold in the world of relationships. Talking with someone on the phone, especially in a long distance relationship, can lead to great phone sex before you begin to talk about meeting. Sometimes having a “phone sex buddy” is one of the joys of your evenings! But when it’s time to settle down with someone and focus all your energies on that one person, the phone sex buddy might have to go.

How do you let your phone sex partner down easy without making them feel as though they were not good enough? Because in reality, this IS all about you – it’s about where your relationships are going and what choices you have made. It’s important that you convey that to your phone sex partner and end the time you’ve spent together on good terms.

Start out by being totally honest about what is happening in your life. Explain to your phone sex buddy that you have found someone who interests you, and you would like to see if a relationship with that person will work. But in order to do that, you have to give your full time and attention to that person. That means your phone sex fun will have to end.

If your phone sex partner wants to do the deed one more time before hanging up the phone for good, why not? You’ve made this decision, it has been accepted, and all that is left is ending the relationship on a high note. Pull out all the stops and make this particular session of phone sex as hot as you possibly can. Enjoy it fully – it’s the last time, and it deserves to be good for both of you!

If your phone sex buddy can remain your friend after the fun is over, think long and hard about whether you can make that happen. Hearing that person’s voice automatically makes your body respond in a sexual way – can you fight that feeling every time you speak? Can you trust your phone sex buddy to just be a “buddy” and not attempt to get your libido riled up?

Finally, be prepared for any kind of emotion. In an ideal scenario, your phone sex buddy will be very happy for you. But sometimes there might be anger at the fact that you are ending what they have come to enjoy so much. There might be resentment, jealousy, or even a feeling of “what did I do wrong?” Be prepared to handle each of those if they happen – because when it comes to breaking up, there’s a reason it’s hard to do.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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