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Get The Phone Sex Party Started!

Having phone sex can be a ton of fun – but getting started with the phone sex seduction can be difficult. You know you want it, but how do you convey that to your partner without just saying, “Hey…I want to have phone sex with you!”? These tips might help…

When you’re in the mood for phone sex, make it clear that you’re feeling sensual. Stretch out while you’re on the phone, and make that satisfied moaning sound as you do it – you know the one. Mention that you’re going to lie down while you talk. Maybe mention how comfortable the bed feels. “Don’t you like to just stretch out in bed and let your body slowly relax?” is a good, non-threatening way to mention where you are and put that picture firmly in your lover’s mind.

Set the scene. You should always start out your phone sex seduction by talking about the things you would normally find in a bedroom. Tell your lover that you have just lit a few candles, and describe the way the flickering light looks on your skin. Mention that you are feeling a bit lonely, and that your lover’s voice is exactly what you need to make you feel better. You can even start asking questions that lead them to think about sex, such as how warm it is where they are, what they are wearing, and what the room looks like.

Once you’ve broken the ice and made it clear that your sensual mood isn’t going away anytime soon, start asking more personal questions. Will you be alone for a while? How long has it been since you had someone hold you the way you deserve? What do you do when you’re all alone in your bedroom…what do you think about? Asking questions like this is sure to get your partner’s mind turned toward the sexual side of things!

If the phone sex trigger doesn’t go off when you ask questions like that, then you know the person you are talking to on the phone isn’t interested in going any further. In that case, you can tell them that you need to take care of a few things before bed (said with a sultry chuckle, of course), say goodbye, and hang up the phone. You can even offer a parting shot – “If you get lonely, give me a ring.”

If you are talking with someone who wants phone sex, the above tips will work. If they don’t want it, well…why not find someone who does?

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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