So you’ve got the hots for that sexy woman you’ve known forever, but you don’t know if she swings toward the ladies. You think she might, but then again, it can be tough to tell. You can find out for sure by firing off a quick game of dirty truth or dare.
Take it from someone who has been there — if she does swing that way, she’s been thinking about it for a long time, but she might not know how to approach you with the suggestion of some girl-on-girl action. She just needs an opening, something that will help her ease into the idea and test the waters. That’s why dirty truth or dare is so much fun when it comes to “feeling” someone out — you can both back away at any time, and if you don’t, well…let the games begin!
Start out with something simple. Let’s say you’re at a bar and drinking at one of the corner tables, bitching about your current lover or the fact that you don’t have one. Start talking about things that are taboo, something that might make you blush. Build a connection by talking about sexuality and the things men and women do that drive you crazy, then bring up the truth or dare question in a very casual way.
“So…truth or dare…if you were to ask me, I would tell you the truth, and here it is.”
Something like that, on a very light and unthreatening sexual subject, will get the ball rolling. Once you’ve said “truth or dare” you can turn the tables and ask her, for real this time…”truth or dare?”
If she says truth, you know you can delve into questions that explore her sexuality, such as whether she has ever been with a woman, or what she thinks of it. If she says “dare” you can bet she’s probably ready to try it out, and the dare can be something simple…a kiss, perhaps?…that is not threatening enough to make her run, but intriguing enough to make her think about wanting more.
This works because there is no pressure at all. Her answers to the “truth” will tell you all you need to know, and she can be as subtle or as blatant as she wants. If she chooses the dare, she always has the option to back out. It’s a situation that truly puts her in the lead while letting her know exactly what you want…and what situation could be better for testing the waters?
Give it a try the next time you want to love up on that female friend of yours, and then come back to tell us what happened!