It is bound to happen sometime. You will be in the midst of sex play, firing off dirty talk to your partner, when you suddenly remembering hearing that exact same line before. You might be in the middle of a hot and wild lovemaking session, and suddenly in the back of your mind there is a little voice asking, “Where did the creativity go, for crying out loud?”
It can be easy to fall into a routine of dirty talk phrases that absolutely work for both of you. And why not? After all, if it ain’t broke, there’s no need to fix it, right?
But just as with anything else that concerns lovemaking, you can find yourself in a rut. Yes, even with that sexy and steamy dirty talk! How do you spice it up when things start to seem a little stale?
There are many places to find new dirty talk ideas. Here are just a few:
Dirty stories. Remember those dime-store men’s magazines that have a few naughty pictures and lots of “confession” type stories? The ones where anything goes? They are perfect fodder for dirty talk ideas. If you aren’t the kind to flip through a naughty paperback, consider the more upscale erotica anthologies on the market today. They might not have as many naughty and raunchy words within those pages, but they do have some interesting scenarios that can lead to new fantasies!
Porn films . Sure, they can run the gamut from sleazy to romantic, but that simply means you can find one that’s right for you! Porn films with the potty-mouthed chick on the cover are usually good for hearing a lot of ear-searing action. Put in a video, watch which words turn your lover on, and file them away in the back of your mind for future reference.
Word of mouth . Do you have a friend who is very open-minded? Tell them you want some new ideas and challenge them to help. You might be surprised by what your friend knows! And of course, friends are all about helping each other out, so the conversation could turn into a very enlightening discussion with not only dirty word tips, but new activities to try as well.
Finally, have you considered a dirty talk forum ? A forum is a place where many people of like minds join in to talk about their favorite things. A dirty talk forum can give you ideas you never imagined!
It’s easy to spice up the dirty talk if you know where to look. Even if it ain’t broke, there’s nothing wrong with tarting it up a little, right?