So you have a great relationship, but you want to spice it up. You’ve tried all the dirty talk phrases you can think of, and now you’re wondering what could possibly be new. What can you say that you haven’t said before?
The key to dirty talk phrases that shock and awe your partner is to get right into their head — to pay attention to what turns them on and use it to your advantage. It doesn’t have to be something that turns on both of you. In fact, choosing to talk dirty about something that your partner knows doesn’t exactly “trip your trigger” can be even hotter, because they know you are getting into the discussion of it for their pleasure, and their pleasure alone. That’s a powerful gift to give your lover!
So what do they like? I’m not talking about the run-of-the-mill fetishes. I’m talking about the hardcore sexual tastes. Sure, maybe they like being tied up…but do they dream of being tied up with leather straps while your friends take turns having their way with them? That’s the difference between your “basic” fetish and your “extreme” fetish. The basic fetishes are things that most people would feel comfortable doing, while the extreme fetishes are those that often stay in the realm of fantasy.
So get extreme! Explore the ins and outs of your partner’s fetish, and then unleash the dirty talk on them the next time you are in bed. If they love to be dominated, take it a step further with a whip and a few choice words about the naughty whore they are being — they aren’t worthy of licking your boots, but they are going to do just that, aren’t they? Control them with your words and invite them into deeper fetishes with your dirty talk. Did they get turned on when you mentioned making them lick your boots? What if they were forced to suck your strap-on dick? What if their friends were invited to watch?
Take your dirty talk phrases further into the extreme fetish until you reach the limit of what your partner likes…or until your partner gets off, whichever comes first!