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Dirty Talk Like a Porn Star And Show Your Partner Who’s Boss!

Dirty talk is one way to bring your sex life from drab to fab. If you’re unconvinced that it actually works or makes a difference because you’re someone who likes to refrain from speaking during sex, you’ll have to actually try it in order to fully understand its power. Believe me, it’s there, you just have to get past the “this is so awkward and sounds so ridiculous” phase and it will come to you.

If you’re shy, the first thing you have to keep in mind is that you and your partner are the only two people in the room (in most cases). Therefore, there is no reason to feel uncomfortable if you want to tell him to nibble on your earlobes or nipples, because he’s the last person that will judge you for it, and he’s also the person that will be most willing to do it. For most people, there is nothing better than being told what to do in order to make their partner feel good, and once you’re comfortable with letting them know what it is you really enjoy, your sex life will become better and you will become more comfortable with your partner, even if you’re already satisfied on that level. Being able to comfortably say the words describing what you want is integral to a healthy sex life, and dirty talk really just stems from that.

Once you’re comfortable telling your partner what to do, get a little bolder next time. Whether you want it harder or faster or anything else, tell them! Get bold, get sassy, and don’t be afraid to tell your partner what to do. Over time you’ll both be taking part in the dirty talk, and you’ll find it to be easier than you thought, maybe even fun. And better yet – maybe even romantic! Whether you’re looking for a few extra nibbles during foreplay or want your hair pulled while you’re going down on your partner, let it be known and don’t be afraid to show your bossy side.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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