Cybersex is not a new fad. Long distance lovers have known about the power of cybersex for years, and they have been more than happy to try out their fantasies online. Talking dirty is one of the hallmarks of the cybersex session, so if you are “old school” and accustomed to phone sex, taking a walk on the wild internet side won’t be that difficult for you. In fact, you might decide you like it so much that you will forge ahead into things even naughtier than cybersex!
But in the meantime, here are a few ways to make that new venture into cybersex hotter than hot:
Find their fetish. Sure, vanilla sex is hot. But isn’t fetish sex even hotter? Find what trips your partner’s trigger and start talking about it. Share fantasies, thoughts, ideas, and even pictures. Explore the fantasies in your head until you know your partner is about to explode, and then ask with a virtual wink, “Wanna?”
Stay on topic. When you do decide to go for the cyber fun, zero in on what they like and stay there. Schoolgirl uniforms turn them on? Suddenly you’re a schoolgirl who is getting into all sorts of naughty trouble. Dirty talk your way through a scenario that involves everything from vanilla sex to spanking to hardcore bondage. Anything goes, as long as you stay in character throughout your cybersex session.
Draw pictures in their mind. Make cybersex even more interesting by keeping in mind all the bodily senses. What do you taste like? What do you look like? What does your perfume or cologne smell like? How does it all feel? What textures are prevalent? What do you sound like when you come? What do you sound like when you get spanked, when you are tied up, and all of those naughty things? The dirty talk details make the experience full and rich.
Keep it coming. Keep your cybersex messages short and sweet, one after the other, in order to keep up the tension. The last thing you want is a long pause before your partner reaches a climax! To that end, make certain you have plenty of privacy for your cybersex session, and don’t be pressed for time. You want to enjoy the thrill of getting your partner off – and then let them return the favor.