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Dealing With The Dirty Talk Phone Sex Cheat

If you’re enjoying the joys of phone sex – and why not? – you’re going to come across this particular person at some point. It’s the person everyone dreads, the one that can leave you reeling and wondering why you ever thought about hooking up with them in the first place. This is the kind of person who can make you wonder if phone sex, no matter how hot, is worth it.

We’re talking about the phone sex cheat.

There are those who will scoff at the idea that a phone sex relationship could ever be considered “real” and will laugh at the thought of someone being able to cheat over the phone…but in the brave new world of internet relationship, it is a reality!

Now, let’s be honest here…when you’re having phone sex, you might have a multitude of ground rules. You might know that the person you are talking to is the kind who will be with many other people, either in the flesh or over the phone. You might be excited by that, and who knows? You might be the one who is the serial phone sex dater!

That’s not a problem. The problem comes when there is an understanding between the two of you. If you and your phone sex partner have been going strong for a while and suddenly they seem to drop off the face of the earth, or they just want to “talk” but don’t want to have anything naughty in the meantime, something isn’t right. That’s when it is time to evaluate your ground rules.

Did you and your phone sex partner have an understanding? Were you in a relationship with this person that you were both expecting to take to the next level? With internet dating, phone sex is often a step up in a relationship and leads to something more. Or were you both just having a fling and you didn’t care what else went on in that person’s life? Some phone sex partners just want a release, and nothing more.

If you and your phone sex partner were looking at meeting at some point or if you were in a long distance relationship, phone sex with someone else could very well be considered cheating. It all depends on the ground rules you have set.

Now, what to do about it?

It would be very tempting to simply do the same thing yourself. Who hasn’t been burned and then thought, “Well, I’ll show them!” It might be easy to say what’s good for the goose is good for the gander, but that’s where you need to take a step back and think about what you’re doing.

Taking the high road might hurt like hell in the short run, but in the long run it’s a beautiful thing. It allows you to keep your dignity and move on without a monkey on your back. It sets an example for the person who has hurt you. If you’re in a phone sex relationship and find that your partner has just decided to look elsewhere, then you should walk away from that situation with your self-respect intact. Lose their phone number and block theirs. They wanted to move on? Let them.

Just like in any other relationship situation, how you handle it is what matters most of all.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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