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Dark Room Means More Sensual Lovemaking

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There’s just something about having to count on what you hear, taste and touch instead of only what you see with your eyes that can make even a typical sexual encounter into something that is much more. Sure, confidence in your looks, shape and abilities may make you feel that in the dark you are hiding something, but in reality doing it in the dark can bring you much closer to your partner.

One way to get started is to have the lights off and undress each other. You’ll not only remember all those high school adventures with unruly bra fastenings, and twisted jeans, but you’ll also get into the spirit of things as you expose more and more skin to your fingertips, to your lips and tongue. Eventually when your bodies press together it will feel as if a million sensations are flooding over you all at once.

Another idea is to get naked first then try shutting off the lights, and even closing your eyes while you and your partner lie together and run your hands all over each others’ bodies. You’ll feel the different textures, the smooth planes, the calloused hands and the tender areas. You’ll be able to touch and feel the response as you glide your fingers along your lover’s skin. You’ll hear their gasps, moans and whispers and it creates a very erotic and sensual mood.

Another great place to explore in the dark is in the shower with your lover. Imagine water sluicing between breasts, a tongue touching and tasting a nipple, hands slick with soap gently stroking all kinds of body parts. Steam rising all around and not a sliver of light. You just have to feel your way, and oh my goodness, you will feel!

Making love in the dark can be used as a way to reignite passion, to get back in touch with your lover through your senses and can create a wonderful feeling of togetherness and knowledge of each other. No matter how well you know your lover, or how predictable your love making may be, if you turn off the lights and allow your senses and natural responses to take over, you may find that you and your lover are quite primal and much more sensual than you may think. So next time you and your partner get in bed and turn the lights off to go to sleep, keep him awake with a better in the dark activity.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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