Does your woman want you to talk dirty to her — but you don’t have a clue where to begin? Many people believe that men have all the answers when it comes to sex, but let’s be honest. Sometimes, even the most seasoned lover is just as clueless as the rest of us!
The best way to learn how to talk dirty to your partner is very simple, but that doesn’t mean it’s easy. It’s all about listening, and hearing what your partner has to say. You might think you do this on a regular basis, but think long and hard about that — when was the last time your lover told you exactly what she wanted in bed? When was the last time she pointed out exactly what she needed?
Talking dirty to your partner is not about throwing out dirty words and finding what sticks. It’s more about being quiet at first, paying attention to your partner’s words, and then turning that listening into action.
The next time your lover is talking to you in bed, or even after the lovemaking is over, listen to what she has to say. Keep those fantasies she talks about tucked away in the back of your mind, and the next time you’re ready to get hot and heavy, let her know by bringing those fantasies back to the surface in the form of naughty dirty talk.
Don’t be fooled by told adage about women being treated like ladies when it comes to the bedroom. This is the one time when you can get away with calling her a slut or a whore, and she just might like it. There’s nothing wrong with breaking every taboo behind the bedroom door, and what doesn’t suit a woman during the light of day might be just what she likes when the lights are out.
Most of all, remember: If she doesn’t like it, she will tell you. A mature woman in charge of her sexuality will be the first to tell you what works and what doesn’t. Don’t treat her like a wilting wallflower, and don’t expect her to be the perfect lady between the sheets. Listen to what she has to say, and it’s a sure bet you will both be fine…and the sheets will be sizzling.