Do you want to share some dirty talk with your boyfriend but you don’t know where to start? You’re not alone. Dirty talk is not something that comes natural to everyone, and it’s a rare person who can jump right into dirty talk in bed without a little practice first. So if you’re like the rest of us and you need a little guidance, read on!
These three tips will have you talking dirty with your boyfriend in no time:
Listen. Good dirty talk starts with listening to what your lover is trying to tell you. Whether you realize it or not, your boyfriend has been trying to tell you exactly what he wants to hear in bed. He might not even be aware of his subtle hints!
If you listen to him when he’s talking about sex, looking at a sexy movie, or reading a magazine that mentions even the slightest hint of sex, you can find out what he likes. Watch where his eyes go — what does he look at? Hear what he says — does he like seeing a woman in boots, perhaps? Listen to what he tells his friends, too — he might say things that are a bit more blatant when he’s with his buddies.
Read. The more you learn about dirty talk, the better you will be at doing it! So pay attention to everything you can get your hands on. Surf the web and find dirty talk sites that spell out the basics. Delve a little deeper and test out some of your dirty talk skills on a forum. Snatch up the Dirty Talk Guide and read it cover to cover. Pick up erotic novels and anthologies and read what professional writers have to say about dirty talk. The more you learn, the better your sexy time will be!
Ask! When you break out your dirty talk on your boyfriend, check in with him during the afterglow. What did he like hearing? What threw him for a loop? What would he like a bit more of the next time? Let his comments lead you into what comes next. With a little patience and open communication, you will learn so much more about your lover, and your dirty talk will be hotter than you ever imagined it could be.