2. Get a manicure and pedicure
3. Go to a bar and flirt outrageously with the cute bartender
4. Strap on a pair of high heels while doing the laundry
5. Wear your sexiest lingerie under your business suit
6. Have a one-night stand
7. Walk around the house naked all day
8. Make a list of compliments others have bestowed upon you
9. Talk to a friend about what you can do to boost your confidence
10. Have a “nooner” with your busy lover
11. Write a naughty story about you and your lover
12. Invest in that gorgeous dress
13. Buy weights and work out to the sound of your favorite music
14. Crank up that music and dance around the house
15. Make a list of the reasons you are successful
16. Go somewhere you have never been before
17. Think about the last time your lover worshipped your body
18. Take a course in something that interests you
19. Buy yourself a huge bouquet of flowers
20. Get an instant spray-tan for a healthy glow
21. Volunteer for your favorite charity
22. Get a haircut – something sexy and sassy!
23. Fake it until you make it
24. Turn up the radio in the car and sing at the top of your lungs
25. Buy yourself a new sex toy and use it immediately!
26. Take a pottery class
27. Turn to visualization – what do you really want? See it in your mind!
28. Keep a gratitude journal of the things that made you happy today
29. Get acrylic nails in a vivid color
30. Decide on what your purpose is. What drives you?
31. Start a blog and talk about your personal experiences
32. Have phone sex with a stranger
33. Leave a steamy message on your lover’s voicemail
34. Take sexy pictures of yourself with a digital camera
35. Take a stripping class
36. Buy a nice gift for someone at work – for no reason at all
37. Go to a private beach in that new swimsuit
38. Have a makeover at the makeup counter
39. Rent a limousine for the evening
40. Go through your old high school yearbook and remember your first crush
41. Better yet, look up old high school friends and give them a call
42. Read old love letters
43. Take a walk – and smile at every stranger who crosses your path
44. Buy a drink for that gorgeous guy at the restaurant
45. Surprise your lover at the door in nothing but a sexy negligee
46. Wear a slinky evening dress to the local play
47. Get a thirty-minute shower…or a two-hour bath
48. Leave a huge tip for your waitress
49. Drop a nice check for a charity – anonymously
50. Set small goals for yourself
51. Surprise your lover with a new sexual move
52. Hop onto the internet and flirt in sexy chat rooms
53. Plan a private vacation for you and your honey
54. Buy a new perfume that makes you feel sultry and sexy
55. Pick one bad habit and resolve to stop – right now
56. Step out of character – walk the mall and pretend you’re a celebrity!
57. Buy a pair of high heels much taller than what you usually wear
58. Leave a sexy note on a stranger’s car
59. Then wear them to bed with your partner!
60. Visit your bookstore, buy a book about something new, and read it cover to cover
61. Sign up for aerobics classes
62. Better yet, hire a personal trainer
63. Read an erotic book while in the bathtub
64. Talk to a fashion expert about which clothes look best for your figure
65. Go through your local drive-through…and pay for the order of the person behind you
66. Wear a barely-there thong
67. Plan a long night out with the girls
68. Eat dinner by candlelight
69. Clean up the clutter. This can make you feel so much better!
70. Give your old mentor a call and thank them for helping you get where you are today
71. Do the dishes in your underwear
72. Send your lover a letter – complete with a lipstick kiss
73. Have flowers sent to yourself at work – with no card, of course. Make everyone guess!
74. Learn how to give a lap dance, and then do it!
75. Start an email relationship with someone completely different from you
76. Make a list of reasons why someone should love you
77. Learn techniques for focusing, and apply them at work
78. Photoshop your own image into pictures with people you admire
79. Rearrange your living room…or your bedroom
80. Learn a foreign language
81. Rent a convertible and cruise through your old neighborhood
82. Walk tall and straight, with perfect posture
83. Resolve to eat healthy foods and avoid the junk
84. Go somewhere you have always wanted to go
85. Spend a weekend simply pleasing your partner
86. Take a couple’s cruise…or a single’s cruise, depending upon your situation
87. Turn into a Mrs. Robinson and date a much younger man
88. Plan a movie day, and go by yourself. No sharing the popcorn!
89. Visit a spa and get a deep-pore facial
90. Invest in expensive moisturizers and use them religiously
91. Print out inspirational quotes and put them around the house so you see them every day
92. Listen to positive, upbeat music
93. Feeling brave? Take a turn at the strip club and dance on the pole!
94. Make a point of living in the present
95. Meditate in a quiet room, with only the sound of your breathing for company
96. Make a list of things you love about your partner, and congratulate yourself on choosing so wisely!
97. Let go of a grudge and forgive the person who wronged you
98. Put up a personals profile and watch the compliments roll in
99. Have your photograph made by a professional photographer
100. Don’t forget pets – their adoration is second to none!
101. Believe you’re sexy…and you will be