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The Easiest Phone Sex Trick EVER

Want to get that phone sex fire revved up, but you don’t know where to start? Maybe you’re in a long-term relationship but the phone sex has become routine. Maybe you just need a bit of spice in what is otherwise a perfectly good – and perfectly hot – time with your favorite phone sex buddy.

There is a very simple trick to spicing up phone sex, one that is often overlooked. It’s one of the easiest ways to wow your partner, and it doesn’t take much effort at all. Can you guess what it is?

Walk into any bookstore and you are bound to find what you’re looking for. It’s not in the aisle with the dirty magazines, and it’s probably not in the self-help section either. You might find it in the romance section, but these days, the naughty books usually have their own section, and it’s called erotica.

Reading erotica is always a good way to get ideas for new and naughty scenarios to share with your partner. But many people don’t realize that erotica can actually be the main event in a phone sex session! If you don’t know what to say or you trust someone else can say it better, reading erotica aloud to your partner can be the spark you need to make phone sex hotter than ever.

To find the best erotica, consider what you and your partner like to talk about when the subject turns to sex. Are there any clear-cut fetishes? Is one of you very submissive or dominant? Do you like bondage, playing with others, or anything else that might not be found in your traditional romance novel?

Erotic anthologies can cover all kinds of fetishes and desires. You can also look for erotica that features very short stories that are designed to be savored one at a time. Go through the erotic anthologies at your local bookstore to find one that suits you, and then break out your favorite of the collection the next time you talk to your partner over the phone.

You don’t have to announce what you’re doing. Simply ask your partner, “What do you think of this? Listen.” And then read the story, putting your own inflections on words and perhaps putting your own twist in here and there. If you get aroused, don’t hide it! Let the story turn you on, and let your partner hear it.

Before you know it, that erotic novel will be worn out…and you will have to hit the bookstore for even more naughty inspiration!

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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