What makes a good sex text message? It might seem simple to get the party started over the phone line, but many people find themselves tongue-tied…or finger-tied, so to speak, when it comes time to get somebody off with their words.
How do you begin? What do you say? And what is the etiquette when you’ve finished and done the text sex deed?
To start, think about you would like to hear from your partner. If you could see any naughty messages on the screen of your phone, what would you want them to be? Are you in a kinky mood? A more romantic one? Are you thinking about one particular fantasy? Do you want to get hardcore? Think about what you want, and then begin there.
Tell your partner what is on your mind. Want hardcore? Tell them how badly you want to get off to their naughtiest words. Tell them that nothing is off limits. Do you have a naughty fantasy to share? Tell them what you want, and don’t skimp on the words. Just lay it out there!
If you’re in the mood for something more romantic, start with telling them how much you love them, and how you feel when you are with them. Then talk about the fact that you are lying there, naked, thinking about what they do that makes you tingle from head to toe. Start describing your body, and use softer terms…instead of “tits” use “breasts” and instead of “clit” use “love button.” (Maybe that’s a bit much, but you get the idea.)
When you’re texting with your partner, keep the texts short and sweet. The idea is to keep the fire burning, not to let it cool between texts. You should be sending at least one text per minute, so let your fingers go as fast as you can. The more intense and fast the conversation, the better the sex will be.
Finally, how do you end it after you’ve hit the big O? Make sure your partner has their pleasure, too. And when you know he or she has gotten off just like you did, don’t forget to thank them for the great time. Whether you have known them for years or whether they are a complete stranger, knowing they made someone feel good is going to bring a smile to their face. So let them know what it did to you…tell them how breathless you are, what your body feels like now, and how much you enjoyed it…and sign off with a smile.