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Phone Sex Tips For Making a Steamy Connection When You’re Far, Far Away

Phone sex is great even if your man is away from your bed, it’s still simple to have a steamy night together. Believe it or not, you don’t even have to be on the same continent as your partner in order to spice up your sex life (assuming you have an international calling plan). If you’re away from each other and have to make do with telecommunication resources in order to get it on, don’t be afraid to go for it and make the call. The majority of men would love nothing more than a “guess what I’m wearing?” call as they’re getting into bed.

Before picking up the receiver, it’s important to get yourself in the mood. Turn the lights down, sip on some wine for a few, or curl up with an erotic story to read and get yourself all riled up. Once you’re ready to make the call, start off with a “ooh I sure wish you were here close to me,” or even reminisce on a super steamy session you had awhile back. It doesn’t take much to get a man’s mind wandering, so a simple icebreaker should do the trick just fine.

Once you’re both in the mood, give some vivid details of what you’re wearing, what you’re taking off, or what you’re doing to yourself. If you have a perfume or lotion he can’t resist, explain to him how you’re rubbing it all over your chest and stomach. Little descriptions lead to more elaborate sexual images and naturally lead into kinkier and kinkier thoughts. Before you know it, questions of “where do you want to lick me now?” and “what would you do if I tied you to the bedpost with my bra?” You very well may have never thought of these things in real life, but you’d be surprised how far your mind can wander and how open you feel when you’re talking on the phone and not actually together. This sort of adventurous talk can lead you to much stronger sexual desires once you’re together again.

With phone sex, once you’re both comfortable with the thought of it, things you’d never think to say in real life will start to roll off your tongue. When the dirty talk starts to get really steamy, take matters into your own hands. It’s nearly pointless to have phone sex without masturbation, and the two of you can talk, tell the other what to do and explain what you’re doing throughout the entire thing. And in the end – you both finish satisfied. It can’t get much better than that.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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