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Phone Sex is the Hottest Dirty Talk

Phone sex used to be a joke – it was the stuff of late-night illicit phone calls to 900 numbers that charged an outrageous price per minute, something that only “losers” would ever cop to actually trying. It was considered shameful at worst and laughable at best.

But soon a new kind of dirty talk emerged. Soon, women all over the world realized they could give dirty phone sex just as well as some stranger on a 900 line…and the result was many a happy man! Before long, phone sex became the mainstay of long-distance relationships.

Today, phone sex has become a prime way to keep the home fires burning when someone has to be far away from the bedroom. Long distance relationships benefit from good, raunchy phone sex. Loving couples who have been married for years find great enjoyment in phone sex during the middle of the workday. For those who aren’t ready for any kind of commitment, phone sex is the ultimate way of hooking up without risking any emotional or physical entanglements.

So don’t let the old stigma of phone sex tie you down – there is much fun to be had!

phone-sex-2When you’re in the mood to give your lover a thrill, ask him for a phone date. Maybe he has thirty minutes at lunchtime, or perhaps he will take some time in the evening to relax and talk with you on the phone for a few hours. Set the time, and then set the mood!

Phone sex is definitely a very real kind of sex, so make sure you’re ready for it. Wear your sexiest lingerie – even if he’s not around to see it, you’re there to feel it, and feeling sexy is the key to great phone sex. Light a few candles, turn on soft music, and get rid of all distractions.

When it’s time to talk, keep your voice low and sultry. You’re going to be describing everything in vivid detail, so speak clearly and take your time. You might tell your lover what you are doing right that very moment, complete with the sexual sounds that you know he loves to hear. Or you might describe a fantasy, something that gets you both hot and bothered.

Encourage him to touch himself for you, and encourage him to be vocal about how good it feels. The point of phone sex is to share something intimate while you are far apart, and the more noise involved, the better!

Don’t be afraid to initiate everything yourself. Men love to hear women getting off – it’s one of the ultimate turn-ons. Let him hear everything you are doing and thinking and feeling. Don’t hold back, either! Part of the fun is knowing that you can be entirely open without having to worry about how you look, what he is seeing, or what he thinks of you.

Phone sex is a very good way to open up, so don’t be shy – just do it!

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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