So you want to know how to talk dirty to your man? It’s one of those questions that has two answers: The short one and the long one. Let’s start with the short one first, shall we?
How to talk dirty to your man? Just do it! Don’t be shy about saying what you think and feel, and certainly don’t hesitate to tell him what you want him to do to you. Men appreciate a woman who knows what she wants and doesn’t feel intimidated by asking for it.
That’s the short answer. Here’s the longer one:
When you are learning how to talk dirty to your man, don’t feel pressured by what you read in magazine or what you hear in porn films. Your man might like to hear such raunchy things, but what he wants more than anything else in bed is a little bit more of you. So be yourself! If you aren’t the kind of woman who throws out the raunchiest words you can muster, that’s okay. Say and do what is comfortable for you. The more fun you are having with it, the more excited your lover will be.
But when you do start talking dirty, don’t be afraid to go hardcore, either. Men don’t like to be treated like delicate flowers. They don’t like to be coddled. They don’t like caution. What they want is you, in all your naked, hot, steamy glory, telling them what you think of their body and their actions. Feel like using coarse words? More power to you! Feel like calling him naughty names? Have at it!
When it comes to the question of how to talk dirty to your man, the truth is this: You really can’t go wrong. As long as you are being yourself, and as long as you are open to new things, your man will be quite happy. If you are willing to drop your inhibitions and learn to talk with even naughtier words than what you’re used to using, your man will be so happy, you might not be able to get him out of bed!
Are you ready to brush up on your skills and learn how to talk even dirtier to your man? Take advantage of the Dirty Talk Guide in order to find the answers you need. Take it one step at a time, and remember…the more comfortable you get with dirty talk, the happier you will both be in the bedroom.
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