Dirty Talk Dominatrix: How to Take Control

Dominating your partner with dirty talk might be much easier than you think. The key to becoming a dirty talk dominatrix lies in recognizing what your partner wants to give to you, even if they don’t put those desires into words. Many men love to be dominated, but they understand that physically, it can be tough for a woman to wield power over them. However, get into a man’s psyche and you can dominate him from every angle, just with a simple word.

How do you make it happen? Start with dirty talk that gets into something he truly enjoys. For instance, does your partner truly enjoy going down on you? Tailor your dirty talk around that particular act, but give it a submissive spin. Try these phrases:

  • You really get off on that, don’t you?
  • You love to please me, don’t you?
  • You’re such a good little cunt-sucker.
  • I think you need to make me cum. Right now.
  • I should handcuff you to the bed and just ride your face. Would you like that?
  • Keep sucking my pussy like the naughty slut you are.
  • If you don’t make me cum, I might have to punish you.
  • This is what I want: Do it exactly as I say.

Putting a submissive spin on your dirty talk sets the stage for even more naughty avenues. Make it all about pleasing you, and what he can do to make that happen. If he has submissive tendencies, he will take to your dirty talk dominating like a duck to water. The more turned on he gets by your control, the more you know you can push those boundaries into truly submissive territory.

A nice dirty talk dominatrix trick is the admission – getting him to say that yes, he likes it, and yes, he wants more. If you suggest something and finish it with “you like that, don’t you?”, you are inviting him to say yes. And once he says yes, he has opened the psychological door to even more naughty things. Take it very gradually and pay close attention to his reactions. If there is something that makes him pause but doesn’t make him say no, you have just found a soft limit that he might want to pursue. But if you say something that makes him tense up and immediately turns him off, you’ve found a hard limit.

The point is not to push him until he calls you out on it. The point is to find where his limits are, and then dominate him within those. By simply leading him with your words, you might find a submissive streak in that usually dominant man, and then you’re in for a boatload of fun!

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Denise Brienne

Author / Writer / Sex Consultant at Dirty Talk 101
Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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Comments

  1. Dominatrix D says

    I can make my slave shoot cum just by talking dirty to him saying things like; you love me to fuck you in the ass don’t you? You want me to make you suck a cock don’t you? Tell me to whip your ass hard – you love me to whip your add with my crop don’t you? I am going to make you fuck another man in the ass and watch you do it and let him fuck you in the ass. This talk makes him shoot without me touching him.

  2. chi-sub says

    So, how can this be reversed. My dom likes us to do more sexting, but I never know what to say or how to respond to him when I’m not in person.

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