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Dirty Sexy Hotness: The Best BlowJob Tips

Here at Dirty Talk 101, we talk about all kinds of dirty things. Dirty talk is at the top of the list, but there are some activities where talking dirty to your partner might be rather difficult…or at least, it should be. And when you’re giving the most fantastic blowjob he has ever had, trust me, no words will be necessary!

Here are a few tips to give him that sexy blowjob he wants with that added elusive bonus…can you guess what it is?

That’s right, honey. It’s the perfect deep throating technique.

Many women think they can’t deep throat their partner, but they probably can…it just takes a lot of practice and a bit of courage to make it happen. The right angle matters too, as well as being in total control of what is happening, so you don’t get hurt as you play. Here are a few tips to make it happen and make it hot:

Practice. You can always tell your guy you want to practice deep throating and he’s sure to oblige…but if you want to knock his socks off with a deep throat surprise, practice on your own first. You can do this by holding tightly to the end of a dildo and sliding it into your mouth, taking it as deep as you can until you find the gag reflex. Then, work on trying to take it deeper, swallowing each time you feel the need to gag. You might not be able to control the reflex completely, but you will have a better sense of when you’re going to gag, and that will help you stay in control when you’re going down on him.

Control Your Breathing. When you are deep throating, his cock might cut off your air – so you have to know how to control your breathing. The best trick is to inhale on the in-stroke and exhale as you pull him out of your mouth. Some women prefer quick, shallow breaths, while others want deep breaths to feel more in control. That’s a personal preference that you will quickly learn to master, so don’t fret!

Find the Angle. The angle of your deep throat can make the difference in how easy it is. It might be best to come down on him from above, while he is sitting and you are kneeling in front of him. Another option is to angle your body so that your head is draped over the side of the bed, and he is coming at you from a standing position. Your neck is enlongated, which makes it easier to take all of him in. You can also play with him with your hands, and that can give you more control over how deep he’s thrusting.

Talk to Him with Your Eyes. Though it’s not polite to talk with your mouth full, you can speak volumes with your eyes. Look right at him as you’re taking him in deep, and make sure he sees the lust you have for him. Your eyes might be a bit wet from the tears that occur with the gag reflex, but guess what? Most guys love it! So give him your sultriest, hottest look while you’re deep throating him to orgasm, and that will push him right over the naughty, dirty edge.

About Denise Brienne

Confident, fun, well-rounded and sexy. Those are words that describe author Denise Brienne, a thirty-something woman who has a knack for giving the best advice to those who want to spice up their intimate relationships.

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