May 2009

From Gold Chains And Moustaches To Romance and Passion: Discovering the Right Kind Of Porn For You

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That’s when I began my own quest for good porn, and what I discovered shocked and pleased me. In light of the sexual revolution that began in the sixties and is, in my opinion, still taking place, there are more facets of the sex industry that are creating products specifically for women. This includes porn that is written and directed with a female audience in mind.

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Looking For A Dash Of Spice? Try These Tips!

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Getting down and dirty with your lover is one of the greatest pleasures. But what happens when the dirty becomes the norm? It’s time to spice things up!

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Naughty Scenarios For The Adventurous Couple

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So…just how brave are you? There are plenty of sexy scenarios that can liven up a relationship until it’s smoking hot. But most of those are done in private, between just the two of you, and probably behind the closed doors of the bedroom. There’s nothing wrong with that – in fact, we’ve often talked [...]

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Hotter Than Hot: Dirty Talk And Mutual Masturbation

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By now you know how hot dirty talk can be. You can imagine driving a man wild with the lustful words that slip so easily from your lips. You can turn up the heat while you’re riding him, and you can even interject a few naughty phrases while you’re roleplaying as the naive virgin – [...]

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What Makes A Relationship…And What Doesn’t?

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If you’ve ever been in a phone sex relationship, a long-distance love affair, or even an internet tryst, you might be familiar with the question of what sex really is…or what it really isn’t. Or what makes a relationship “real” – and what doesn’t.

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3 Of The Less Obvious Signs He May Not Be That Into You….Anymore.

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Yikes, the Breakup. So many of us always say after the fact, “But I didn’t see it coming!”. As women, we say that because if we had seen it coming, we could have maybe stopped it all together. The truth is, you probably did see the signs, you just didn’t want to admit be honest [...]

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The Lost Art Of The Quickie

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Have you ever noticed how long-term couples lose the affinity for quickies? Having a quickie used to mean getting it on in the closet at a party or even in the bathroom on an airplane – if you were flexible enough, of course. Quickies used to be the kind of thing you did right before [...]

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More On “Shock and Awe” – Taking Dirty To The Next Level!

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Yesterday we talked about how to fulfill your lover’s craving for a bit of “shock and awe” dirty talk. Now we’ve got some examples for you to try out tonight!

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So He Wants “Shock And Awe” Dirty Talk?

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Imagine this scenario… You and your lover are in bed together, basking in the afterglow of a great lovemaking session, when you begin talking about fantasies. And your man tells you that he wants to hear something a little more “out there” – something you’ve never told him before.

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Dirty Talk By Association

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The words you use when you’re talking dirty matter. But how many times have you seen a loving couple glance at each other when something totally benign was said? That glance was charged with passion and they blushed, or looked naughty, and smiled at each other with a secret that nobody else could possibly know. [...]

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Are You Dominant Or Submissive In Your Relationship?

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Whether you are the more dominating or the more submissive person in the relationship, you need to learn how to give and take a bit with your partner, or you risk causing some seriously hurt feelings. And, as always, this involves learning how to be a better communicator.

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