From the monthly archives:

May 2009

From Gold Chains and Moustaches to Romance and Passion: Discovering the Right Kind of Porn for You

May 30, 2009

That’s when I began my own quest for good porn, and what I discovered shocked and pleased me. In light of the sexual revolution that began in the sixties and is, in my opinion, still taking place, there are more facets of the sex industry that are creating products specifically for women. This includes porn that is written and directed with a female audience in mind.

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Looking for a Dash of Spice? Try These Tips!

May 29, 2009

Getting down and dirty with your lover is one of the greatest pleasures. But what happens when the dirty becomes the norm? It’s time to spice things up! These tips should help bring the filthy back into your sex life:
See Something Dirty. Ah, yes. The good old-fashioned porn movie. What does your partner like? What [...]

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Naughty Scenarios for the Adventurous Couple

May 28, 2009

So…just how brave are you?
There are plenty of sexy scenarios that can liven up a relationship until it’s smoking hot. But most of those are done in private, between just the two of you, and probably behind the closed doors of the bedroom. There’s nothing wrong with that – in fact, we’ve often talked about [...]

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Hotter Than Hot: Dirty Talk and Mutual Masturbation

May 27, 2009

By now you know how hot dirty talk can be. You can imagine driving a man wild with the lustful words that slip so easily from your lips. You can turn up the heat while you’re riding him, and you can even interject a few naughty phrases while you’re roleplaying as the naive virgin – [...]

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What Makes a Relationship…and What Doesn’t?

May 26, 2009

If you’ve ever been in a phone sex relationship, a long-distance love affair, or even an internet tryst, you might be familiar with the question of what sex really is…or what it really isn’t. Or what makes a relationship “real” – and what doesn’t.
When I was in a long-distance relationship a few years ago, my [...]

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3 of the Less Obvious Signs He May Not Be That Into You….Anymore.

May 23, 2009

Yikes, the Breakup. So many of us always say after the fact, “but I didn’t see it coming!”. As women, we say that because if we had seen it coming, we could have maybe stopped it all together. The truth is, you probably did see the signs, you just didn’t want to [...]

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The Lost Art of the Quickie

May 22, 2009

Have you ever noticed how long-term couples lose the affinity for quickies? Having a quickie used to mean getting it on in the closet at a party or even in the bathroom on an airplane – if you were flexible enough, of course. Quickies used to be the kind of thing you did right before [...]

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More on “Shock and Awe” – Taking Dirty to the Next Level!

May 21, 2009

Yesterday we talked about how to fulfill your lover’s craving for a bit of “shock and awe” dirty talk. Now we’ve got some examples for you to try out tonight! Think about what your lover likes to hear and then try some of these spicier suggestions to open up new doors in the bedroom:
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So He Wants “Shock and Awe” Dirty Talk?

May 20, 2009

Imagine this scenario…
You and your lover are in bed together, basking in the afterglow of a great lovemaking session, when you begin talking about fantasies. And your man tells you that he wants to hear something a little more “out there” – something you’ve never told him before.
Okay, that’s fine…but what if you find yourself [...]

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Dirty Talk By Association

May 19, 2009

The words you use when you’re talking dirty matter. But how many times have you seen a loving couple glance at each other when something totally benign was said? That glance was charged with passion and they blushed, or looked naughty, and smiled at each other with a secret that nobody else could possibly know.
It’s [...]

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