Dirty Talk Blog - How To Talk Dirty

If you’re not into the hard-core dirty talk, there’s still plenty for you to experiment with and bring into the bedroom. Are you more of the romantic kind, the one who likes wine and roses? Is your partner the same way? Would you rather make out for hours on end than remake the latest porn film?

If so, do I have the dirty talk idea for you!

Learn a new language. That’s right — not just the dirty talk vocabulary you’ve been working on, but a bona fide new set of words! The French language is the language of love, and for good reason: It sounds sweet and rich when it rolls off your tongue. Italian can be romantic, too. Any language can make your lover shiver, as long as you say it in such a way that makes him believe you’re the sultriest woman on the planet — in ANY language!

Pick up a few lessons on tape and listen to them in the car when your partner is not around. Make a point of paying attention to the "love" phrases. What would you say to your partner to tell him how much you love him and how deeply he turns you on? Figure out how to say those words in your chosen language, and the next time you’re in bed together, show off your new skill.

Don’t tell him what you’re saying, though. Make him figure it out! Part of the sexiness of a different language is the fact that he doesn’t know what you’re saying — but it’s a sure bet that he’s going to enjoy it!

When you are in the mood to talk dirty to your partner, these tips will come in quite handy. Which ones will help you make the most of your naughty experience?

- Make your dirty talk authentic to the situation. If you’re a young lady in a French Maid’s outfit, make that clear with your submissive, quiet vocalizations. If you’re a dominatrix in the mood to make your man do your bidding, your dirty talk will take on a darker, harsher tone. Whatever the situation, your dirty talk will reflect who you are.

- Keep growing that vocabulary! Do the old words you are used to using now sound stale and forced? Are you worried that you keep saying the same things over and over? Even when they are used in different situations, the same old words can become…well, the same old words. Spice it up! Read a dirty book for ideas. Surf the internet and find new ways to use old words. Use variations on body parts, sexual acts, and fetishes to create a dirty talk atmosphere that will wow your lover.

- Experiment with your sounds. Do you sound better if you moan a word, or is it better said quickly, to keep up a frentic pace during sex? What words are more like a caress when they are whispered? What words are meant to shock and get your partner revved up a bit more? Practice doing all sorts of things with those words. Using the same phrase, start by whispering it, then get increasingly loud and firm with it. Do this on your own, and then surprise your partner with the subtle nuances of your sexy talk.

- Engage your partner in your dirty talk. Ask questions and demand answers. Ask your partner to get more explicit. Perhaps playing the game of withholding something until he ponies up is worth a try — if he wants to touch you there , he’s going to have to name exactly what it is he wants to fondle! Or if he wants you to do something sexy to him, he’s got to ask for it in the sexiest way possible. It’s no fun if the naughty conversation is only one way — unless, of course, the other person is gagged and can’t speak, but that’s another blog post altogether!

- Finally, make sure your partner knows anything he says is welcome. In the heat of passion, there is no telling what will come out someone’s mouth, so you need to be ready for anything. Don’t laugh at your lover, and don’t be shocked if he comes up with things that blow your mind. Embrace the fact that he trusts you enough to tell you these wild fantasies!

With an open mind and a little practice, you can have a dirty talk experience that will leave you breathless and wanting more. Try it out on your lover and see what happens!

One of the major advantages of dirty talk is the fact that it can bring you and your lover closer together. Dirty talk shared between the two of you is a secret that no one else knows — it’s the silent look that passes between the two of you at that busy party, or the whispered word that nobody else knows you said. That closeness leads to a richer, stronger relationship. The more secrets you have that are shared just between the two of you, the more exciting your love will get!

The next time you and your partner are teasing each other with naughty words, take a moment to point out how great it is that you can be so open and free with your comments. Talking dirty takes lots of trust, and you’ve got it.

Now go to the bedroom and flaunt it!

Did you know dirty talk is good for you? It’s true!

Talking dirty to your partner can increase your sexual satisfaction. By telling your lover exactly what feels good and describing in detail what you want him to do, you are sure to reach a higher level of sexual pleasure. The better the satisfaction, the more health benefits.

Sexual satisfaction equates to all sorts of good things. You get a good workout in the midst of lovemaking, especially when things get hot and heavy. Being in bed with your lover brings a sense of excitement, but it also brings a sense of comfort and peace — you’re with someone who cares about you, and in his presence, you can relax. The orgasm that your lover helps you reach will relax you even further.

In fact, orgasm does some great things all on its own. Other than the obvious, of course! It’s a surefire stress reliever, and we all know that reducing stress is key to living a longer, healthier life. It is also a pain reliever; when you orgasm, endorphins are released, which can cure anything from the little aches and pains to a migraine. In addition, sex with a few good orgasms has been proven to improve circulation, boost your immune system and put you in a much better mood.

Dirty talk leads to all this! When you tell your partner exactly what you want in bed, your chances of an orgasm increase. When you show your partner what you want, the chances go up even more. Dirty talk isn’t just a naughty addition to sex, it’s an essential communication!

Besides that, talking dirty to your partner brings you closer together. It gives you both a secret to keep away from the rest of the world. You might be entirely presentable in public, a perfectly modest picture, but your lover knows what a vixen you are in bed. No one else knows what he does! What would his friends think — or your boss, your coworkers, even your family — if they knew those naughty things that came out of your mouth last night?

The fun part of it is that they don’t know — but HE does. You’ve trusted your lover to hear you talk that way, and that gives you a deeper bond than what you had before you crawled between the sheets. That connection is good for your relationship!

The more content you are in your relationship, the better your health will be. Being with your lover will make you feel happier, will reduce stress and even bring more excitement to your life.

See how dirty talk is good for you? Why not try it out tonight and start reaping the benefits — especially those naughty ones — right away?