101 Ways to Sex Up Your Space

1. Invest in high-count linens for your bed.

2. Use lamps instead of overhead lights.

3. Light candles around the room.

4. Paint the walls a darker hue – white is too glaring.

5. Use “sponging” when you paint the walls for luscious texture.

6. Hang sexy artwork at eye level.

7. A four-poster bed is perfect for sexual romps.

8. Put a tie-down kit underneath your mattress for instant bondage.

9. Hang a scarf over your lampshade for a sultry glow.

10. Invest in colored light bulbs for your bedside lamps.

11. Spray perfume on the sheets.

12. When you wash your sheets, put a drop of essential oil in the water for a fresh scent.

13. Buy lots of plush throw pills.

14. Do you like porn? Invest in a big television.

15. Put a hidden DVD player near the television for your viewing pleasure.

16. Set up a stereo system for lovemaking music.

17. Don’t hesitate to pull out your lover’s old Playboys and look at them in bed.

18. Glass dildos can double as gorgeous sculptures…seriously.

19. A bottle of lube on the bedside table is a must.

20. Keep a “toy drawer” filled with all your sexual treasures.

21. Have a collection of CDs already mixed and ready at a moment’s notice.

22. Put masculine flowers around the room – tiger lilies are a good choice.

23. Use a variety of textures on your bed, such as cotton paired with silk.

24. Plush throw rugs are easy on the feet and keep up the “softness” theme.

25. Want to walk on the wild side? Use leopard prints!

26. Put a stack of erotic novels at your bedside.

27. Keep the kitchen stocked with finger foods that are good for sex.

28. Keep a basket of fruits in your bedroom – strawberries and bananas are a good start!

29. Free-standing mirrors can be moved anywhere you want them.

30. Choose items that appeal to all the senses.

31. Are you into serious art? A Faberge egg on the nightstand will give you a feeling of richness.

32. Use spotlights to highlight your sexiest artwork on the walls.

33. Are you very creative? Paint a sexy mural on your bedroom wall.

34. Replace your boring ceiling fan with a crystal chandelier.

35. How courageous are you? Put luscious fabric on the walls.

36. Mirrors on the ceiling. Need I say more?

37. For the romantic in you, a canopy bed is a real treat.

38. Invest in a long, flat box that fits underneath your bed to hold your larger toys.

39. Do away with clocks. You don’t want to put a time limit on lovemaking, do you?

40. If you are in a long-term relationship, put a picture of the two of you in a very prominent place.

41. Rearrange your rooms to make them “feel” different.

42. Invest in fresh flowers to fill opulent vases.

43. Keep everything very clean – a big pile of laundry is a mood killer!

44. Try not to have a telephone in your bedroom.

45. Want some serious adventure? Buy a sex swing for the corner of the room.

46. In the bathroom, keep the towels fluffy and the soap fresh.

47. Your shower can be a watery love nest! Keep sensual body wash in there.

48. If you can invest in a big whirlpool or Jacuzzi, your sex life will thank you.

49. Choose a small (or large!) wine cellar and keep a few good bottles on hand.

50. Hide “everyday items” in drawers – such as tampons, extra toilet paper, etc.

51. Make the bed. It sounds simple, but it really does matter!

52. Don’t forget to have a good stash of condoms or your choice of birth control hidden away somewhere near the bed – it’s better safe than sorry!

53. Choose colors that evoke peace and passion.

54. The bigger the mattress you have, the better.

55. Have all the necessities handy in the bathroom – wet wipes, soft towels, washcloths, etc.

56. Want to send a message? Drape your negligee over your bed in the afternoon, so he will see it as he wanders through the house in the evening. Voila – your intentions are now clear!

57. Hardy and lovely plants make great accents.

58. Keep the closet doors closed. The last thing you need is to glance up, see your business suit, and start thinking about work.

59. Take down your door and put up beads, linens, or other signs of romance in the entryway.

60. Indulge in a thick cashmere robe.

61. Keep in mind the natural light in your bedroom. If you like to sleep in during the mornings, opt for dark shades. If you are making love in the morning hours, open them up and let the sunlight in!

62. Look into Feng Shui to determine where to place your furniture.

63. Put an electric fireplace in the corner and bask in the romantic glow.

64. French doors that lead to a deck or balcony are very sexy.

65. Consider the outdoors around your love nest, too. A lush garden brings to mind fertility and growth.

66. Invest in a romantic swing for your front porch.

67. Open the windows at night to listen to the sound of night creatures.

68. Keep the temperature in the room at a steady, comfortable level.

69. A box of professional massage oils is always a welcome addition to the bedroom.

70. A long bench at the end of the bed is a sexy addition.

71. Do you need to partition the space? Use opaque screens to make it look mysterious.

72. Want to seriously up the ante? Spread rose petals around the room.

73. Put your television in an armoire made of expensive wood.

74. Cluster picture frames on top of the dresser for an instant memory wall.

75. Put love letters into a pretty box with a ribbon – it’s a reminder of your love.

76. A wide, sturdy chair in the corner is the perfect place to start a striptease!

77. Choose accent pieces, such as vases, that have a sensual shape.

78. Keep your decorations simple.

79. Surround your bathtub with candles.

80. Double shower heads or “natural waterfall” showerheads are beautiful additions.

81. Use a free-standing vanity instead of a wall unit for old-fashioned romance.

82. Don’t forget to use incense in your bathroom, too!

83. An antique secretary desk in the hallway is a romantic touch.

84. Spread the love – put connected speakers throughout the whole house.

85. Keep a bottle of champagne in the refrigerator at all times.

86. Set your dining room table for a romantic dinner for two.

87. A golden glow always turns up the heat – try painting your walls with something warm.

88. If you have pets, take care to keep shedding hair off the blankets and quilts.

89. Are you a true music lover? Put a phonograph in your bedroom instead of a modern CD player and listen to your sexy tunes on vinyl.

90. If you’re into BDSM, install a few weight-bearing beams in the bedroom for playtime.

91. Are you really adventurous? Set up a tripod and a camera to record the action.

92. Keep your bedroom reserved for sex and romance – don’t do anything else in there (except sleep, of course).

93. Thirsty? Keep a small ice bucket beside the bed with your favorite beverages for a quick hydration break during lovemaking.

94. Why stick with the bedroom for creating romance? Take your satin sheets to the pull-out couch, the kitchen table, or the great outdoors of your backyard.

95. If you have a pool, have underwater lights installed.

96. Plant a rose garden and pick your own bouquets.

97. Small details matter – like those crystal candleholders on the desk.

98. Hang long sheets of romantic netting from the corners of your bed.

99. Have a glass of wine on your covered porch in the middle of the night.

100. Watch the sunrise together from the bedroom before you make love.

101. Try making love in utter darkness, and appreciate the beauty of your room when you wake up after a long, hot night!