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by Denise Brienne on May 29, 2009

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If something seems a little off-kilter in your relationship, you might chalk it up to a bad day or a bad week. But if you have a gut feeling that something is wrong, it just might be.

Sometimes the signs of a cheating partner are not that obvious. Some cheaters are so dedicated to what they are doing that they will cover every track very carefully. What are some of the not-so-obvious signs of a cheating partner?

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Wife enjoys – From Brisbane

by Denise Brienne on July 2, 2009

I would like to tell my story, my name is Stephanie. I have had a good sex life with my husband and we constantly are trying new things. Lately he has spoke about sharing me with another man. I am not sure about doing this but while we are having sex and we speak about it , it does excite me a little and I know when I am drunk I may be capable of it. I worry how I would feel after it.

Anyway the other night my husband said he wanted to try something different. He wanted to have me standing up handcuffed to the bottom of the bed. I would be wearing high heel shoes and stay up stockings only. I would be leaning over with my legs straight he would then blindfold me. I said lets do it on Saturday night

On Saturday night he set me up in the correct position and started playing with my fanny. He squirted some lube on his fingers and rubbed it onto my fanny and teased my bum hole. It did not take me long to get into the mood. He then said he would let one of my hands go so I could rub my clit while he pushed pinky in my fanny and the other vibe into my bum.

After I came he retied my hand, and out of the blue started smacking my Bum. He had done this before and I actually told him to hit me harder. After he had reddened my arse he pulled my head onto his cock and fucked my mouth. Then he moved around and started to slam his cock into my fanny, he then said I was not to speak or he would beat my Bum again. His cock started to throb and he pulled his cock out. I said put it back in. for this the beating started again on my bum. My bum was more sensitive after the first beating so I just shut up, he said I was allowed to moan but not talk.

He then started ramming his cock in again, he started to throb and pulled out again. This time he did not hit me, as I kept quiet. He then moved around and put his cock in my mouth, it felt different somehow. He moved around and started slamming it into me again.
This time he went longer and I came out loud. He started to throb and pulled out, he had never lasted this long before. Before I knew it he started slamming me again, I was so proud of him , he stopped and after about a minute he started again I was so wet and my fanny was on fire I came again. He did it one more time then moved around the front and cum allover me there was heaps of cum it splatterd in my hair on my face and tits. I wished I could see it but he told me to stay still for a moment. I thought he went for a towel. As I stood there he uncuffed me and told me to lay on the bed.

He took off the blindfold and kissed me hard on the lips. He looked satisfied and I felt it. I looked in the mirror and said that has got to be the most cum you have ever done. I asked him when he cum last, and then remembered we made love the previous night.
I told him that I couldn’t believe how long he lasted. He just smiled as we lay there I asked him “there wasn’t somebody else there, was there?”

He said “you will never know” and started to kiss me and he got hard and gently started to fuck me again. I thought if he has brought somebody else in, was I mad at him it was the best sex I had ever had and this way I was not even sure if he did or not.
I started to get excited and said.

Lets do that blindfold thing again sometime! He blew his load into me, I knew that meant Yes!!

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You know the situation. You want to watch something sexy, but your partner isn’t into porn, and maybe you aren’t, either. But you want to feel that aching, heart-pounding, breathless feeling of watching two people get it on. What do you do?

You check out one of these fabulous sex scenes from mainstream movies. These hot characters don’t hold back!

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The Dirtiest Kitchen Ideas!

by Gwenny on June 30, 2009

Yes, I know. The kitchen should be clean. The dishes should be done, the pans put away, the floor swept and the counter scrubbed. The kitchen is a place for good food, good conversation, and togetherness. It’s not a place to get dirty!

Or is it?

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When Jealousy Rears Its Ugly Head

by Ginny Wilder on June 29, 2009

Jealousy is a complicated emotion, especially when it comes between two lovers. Sometimes those twinges of jealousy are caused by your own personal insecurities, and sometimes they are warning flags that something is not right in your relationship. No matter what is motivating your feelings of jealousy, they aren’t feelings that you should ignore – they mean that there is something going on that needs your attention. 

The two times I experienced particularly strong feelings of jealousy, it turned out that my boyfriends had been cheating on me. Yes, it happened twice. The first time through, it took me a long time to realize what was going on and discover that the man I thought I loved was really taking advantage of me. I let him convince me that I was just being a jealous lover, and that I was a bad person for not trusting him. But the feeling would not go away, and in time I discovered that I had been correct in my feelings of jealousy.

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In today’s day and age of online dating, the blind date is one part of life that seems more common than ever before. Blind dates are also becoming increasingly common even without online dating however, and this is because many singles are steering away from the bar or club scene and are looking for more suitable ways to find people to spend time with. And then of course there are the well meaning friends and family who “just want to see you happy” and have that third cousin, neighbor, or co-worker that you just “have to meet” because you’d be “perfect for each other”. In this day and age, you can’t be too selective, or you will market yourself right off the market, but you don’t want to date just anybody either. And well, who knows how well Christmas will go this year if you snub Aunt Pina’s blind date request. To cover all your bases, the next time you get pitched with a set-up, ask your well intentioned friend or family member the next four questions before you agree to the blind date. And NEVER go by how cute they tell you your prospect is. Use their answers from THESE questions to gauge your decision, and it will save you a world of trouble.

1. How long have you known him? This is a basic question because if they just met them yesterday, you may want to question their judgment. If this is someone they’ve been sharing a cubicle with for 10 years, you may want to trust their judgment. Remember, your friends and family really DO want the best for you even if it looks like you will end up getting “trapped” into an awkward situation.

2. Why do you think we’d make a good match? A lot of people assume that just because THEY think someone is great that you will too. Look for answers that align with qualities that you find compatible with yourself. See if this prospect really does share some of your ideals and values or even a little bit of common ground. If you both love Paul McCartney, but that’s the only thing they can come up with for you, you may want to question this decision here.

3. What is their recent relationship history like? If you are met with blank stares to this one, your well intended whoever does not know this person well. And maybe they’re just trying to find company for a friend going through a divorce or new to the area, or anything along those lines. If they do know the person well enough to give you a long archived record of dating dramas, remember, they know this person well enough to suggest them to you, and that’s not always a bad thing. Use your instinct to guide you through this question, as you would if you were meeting the prospect on your own.

4. How did you describe me to them? This is important as it will reveal what your intended friend or family member really thinks about you. It will also reveal how well they do or don’t know you, and if they truly understand what you are looking for. If Aunt Pina says, “well, I just told him how pretty you were and how much you like cats, darling” then well, you want to wonder how compatible this person really is. On the other hand, if they spew off all of your educational credits, your professional accomplishments, and what a wonderful loyal friend you are, then you know your best interests are being taken seriously and you may not want to pass this one up.

At the end of the day, if you are single and looking, the general rule of thumb is to not overlook any opportunity. The same goes for blind dates, you just need to use a little bit of your best judgment, along with your trusted instincts, and you are that much farther ahead of the game.

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The Turn-On Secret Most Lovers Overlook

by Gwenny on June 26, 2009

You’re ready to make love. The stage is set – the satin sheets are inviting, the lights are dimmed, the music is perfect. Maybe you’ve opted for candles, and perhaps you’re wearing the perfect thing to get your lover’s attention.

But there’s something you’re forgetting…can you think of what it might be?

Here’s a hint: Take a deep breath. What do you smell?

If your answer is “nothing,” you’re in good company. Many people will remember every little detail of setting the stage in their love nest, yet overlook the one thing that can rev up his libido before you even lay a hand on him. The smell of the room – just like the smell of a woman – can work magic on his arousal.

What scent will work on your man? Keep in mind that the sense of smell is one of the most important things in jogging memory. A certain scent can take you back to a very good time in your life, whether it’s the whole of a relationship or a single night of passion. If there is something you want your man to think about when you’re going to seduce him, make sure that something is you!

Start with your own perfume. If you have a signature scent, your man probably already associates it with you – so spray some on his pillow. Be sure to spray it on your lingerie and your body, too. The response from him will be instant as he realizes that the scent of your perfume means he’s going to be very close to you, very soon.

Is there a special memory you want to invoke? If the best sex of your life happened with your partner while you were on a secluded beach rubbing lotion onto each other’s bodies, bring that memory back with a coconut-scented room spray or other scents that you associate with that night.

Another good option for turning men on is — okay, this is odd, so get ready for it — baked goods. It sounds like a spin on the old saying “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach,” but there is actually some truth to that statement. Studies have proven that men become aroused faster when they take a whiff of donuts or pumpkin pie. The cozy, comfortable feeling they get from those particular scents will make them more likely to want sex.

What’s the perfect combination for a man’s nose? Scientists have the answer: Pumpkin pie and lavender. The cozy feelings of the pumpkin, combined with the relaxing properties of the lavender, proved to turn men on more than any other scent combination.

So…why not spray your sheets with lavender and find a great recipe for pumpkin pie? Your reward will be dessert between the sheets!

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Phone Sex is Safe Sex…if You’re Careful

by Gwenny on June 25, 2009

Phone sex, once the subject of snickers and desperation, has now become so mainstream that it seems everyone is doing it. Now that cell phones and internet mean that we can be reached anywhere, anytime, keeping the phone sex hot is easier than ever.

But if you’re playing the phone sex field and having your fun with lots of different partners, you should be paying attention to safety. Yes, phone sex is the ultimate “safe sex” in that nobody gets pregnant, and nobody can possibly contract an STD…but if you’re having phone sex with partners you don’t know well, you should be wary of the real-world implications.

Most people are already very aware of how to be careful on the internet. Some basic rules of thumb include not giving out your full name or your address, not offering any identifiable pieces of information, such as names of your children or the town you live in, and basically keeping everything “close to the vest” until you know someone well enough to tell them more.

But when it comes to phone sex, many people throw caution to the wind. Perhaps the sound of a person’s voice implies more intimacy and closeness than the words on a computer screen. Maybe someone speaking to you can gauge your tone and knows how to push for just the right information. Whatever the reasons, the safety rules for phone sex fun aren’t nearly as clear-cut as those for internet play – but they should be.

How can you stay safe while playing the phone sex field?

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Dirty Secrets You Should Never Tell

June 24, 2009

When you are in love and planning a future with someone, keeping secrets might not seem like a good thing. Every secret is a small brick in a wall between the two of you, and the more bricks you have, the harder it will be to climb over that wall.
But what about those secrets [...]

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Oops! What Do You Do When You Get Caught?

June 23, 2009

Imagine this: You’re in the midst of a hotter-than-hot sexy session with your lover. You are saying everything that comes to mind, but especially the naughtiest things. Maybe you’re actually “in the act” or maybe you’re just getting started. You think you’re alone…but then you suddenly realize you’re not.
You’ve been caught. You’ve been caught [...]

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Flirting with a Brick, Part 2: Bold Flirting Tips

June 22, 2009

Flirting is the human form of the mating dance. It is not as clearly defined as some of the rituals that take place in the animal kingdom, but it is every bit as primal. Men and women alike are turned on by The Chase.

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5 Signs Your Partner is Not Telling the Truth

June 20, 2009

Unfortunately we live in a day and age where infidelity is more common than monogamy. A recent research study out of the University of Montreal tells us that anywhere between 40-70% of couples experience infidelity at some point in their relationships. That’s pretty high, and when you have been cheated on, very often [...]

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Breakup 101: When Dirty Talk Becomes Dirty Laundry

June 19, 2009

We’ve all seen it happen. It’s the moment when the amicable breakup suddenly goes south. Someone decides the other person isn’t hurting enough, and they want to remedy that situation. They decide to drag things that happened in the privacy of the bedroom out into the light, in the hopes of striking back at the [...]

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When Dirty Talk Makes You Wonder…

June 18, 2009

If you’re anything like me, you are always interested in improving your sex life. No matter how good it is already, there is always something else out there to do…something a little more special, a little kinkier, a little sweeter. Sex is not only a ton of fun, but an ever-changing learning experience.
But from [...]

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An Erotic Story: “Tell Me You Don’t Want It”

June 17, 2009

It’s been a while since we had a dirty story, don’t you agree? It’s time for a new one! If you’re a woman who is thirsting for a little “something more” than what you’re currently getting, this is the story for you!
Tell Me You Don’t Want It
Okay…so I shouldn’t have done it. It was [...]

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Erotic Confessions Make Dirty Talk Hotter Than Ever

June 16, 2009

Come closer…yes, right here.
Let me whisper a secret into your ear…
Why are confessions so hot? What is it about those deepest, darkest fantasies that always seem to trip the erotic switch, the one that seems to have a direct line to your libido? Something about hearing an erotic confession – a tale of something done [...]

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